They get together all the time...When ever I'm around he don't pay no attention to me...I try not to worry about the situation...and trust him, but the way he be treating me make me question their friendship...please help!!!!
2007-03-09 04:37:18 · 28 answers · asked by sHy_gUrL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As your boyfriend, he shouldn't be surprised if you do get a little jealous, especially if he doesn't pay attention to you. Voice your concerns & see what he says. It will give you a big clue about where the both of you are headed. Decide from there. Good luck.
2007-03-09 04:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See its easy.. He is not paying you attention. It just means he is not into you.. now it doesnt have to his female friend who is diverting his attention.. it could be anything.. the problem is that he is not being your bf in the true sense of the word..
Talk to him clearly without getting all emotional stirred up..
say you dont like the way he has been acting
you dont approve of his friendship and if he wants to continue with it, it would be best if you two parted ways.. then just as unemotionally, pick up your stuff and act as if it has ended.. dont pay attention to what he has to say.. just leave
give him a few days and then see what happens...
if he wants you, he will be calling u like mad after a few days.. otherwise u r better off without him..
2007-03-09 12:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of females have this problem now days...I've had it happen to me...make him pay attention to you or confront the other girl...don't tell him how you feel, tell her. But he will hear about it in the end, and he'll ask you if that's how you really feel about the whole thing. OR you can do it the heartbreaking way...Make him feel guilty and get a guy best friend...then see what he thinks
2007-03-09 12:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Lil Mama*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think since you guys are the couple that you should ask him about his relationship w/ his friends also let him know that you feel as though you are being totally ignored by him and feeling uncomfortable in a way when he is w/ his friend let him know you trust him at least just need to know whats up alright
2007-03-09 12:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by asia l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a boy and a girl cant really be 'friends'. there is just always a feeling..doesnt mean they have to fall in love or anything, it means that they can get attracted and end up doing stuff that 'more than friends' do. i wouldnt ask him to leave her as a best friend cuz he might think you are controlling, but mabye just ask him straight up.
2007-03-09 12:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by F . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it or move on. It's that simple. There are billions of men out there. If you're uncomfortable with this situation, express it. If nothing changes, leave. If you don't want to leave, quit complaining since you're fully aware of the consequences.
2007-03-09 12:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to stop this before it gets worse and your going to feel dumb. You need to confront both of them together how you feel about them hanging out and him treating you bad when she is around. You need to tell him to his face that he needs to choose you or her b/c you are not going to put up with that any longer. Its ok for them to be friends but not to be haning out 24/7 like they are togeather . Im sorry sweetie but you need to fix situation fast before you get hurt. Good luck let us know what happens please
2007-03-09 12:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I want to say to trust him....but.....if he and this girl are getting to close you need to talk to him about it be honest because the root of all good relationships is trust and you can't trust him if you don't tlak about it
2007-03-09 12:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by jollyrancher1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk to your man.. and watch out for his girl bestfriend she might like him. I have a best friend that is a male and his girlfriends dont like the idea but i met them and talk to them to let them feel comfortable about the sitaution but this girl is not doing that maybe she wants to be with him and maybe if he wanted her i doubt if he would bring you around her so just talk to him and tell him your not comfortable around them
2007-03-09 12:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by SnUggLes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry but it time for you to take a stand in your relationship, you really love him but he his disrespectful of your relationship together, it is time to let your boyfriend in on this because it will kill you mentally thinking about this constantly, maybe there are having an affair and maybe not, if this love is worth fighting for don't let this thing take it all away. good luck!
2007-03-09 12:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by lormarria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋