Is he going off me??

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a yr and half now, live together etc.. he works away and only comes bk at the weekends( this has bin the past 5 wks now) on the phone he seems like he does really want to talk to me and hardly ever tells me he loves me (which is unusual) and when he is back home at the weekend he doesnt like to stay in with me or take me anywhere like he used to, he wud rather go to the pub with his mates, is he going off me or is this just stress at work?! iv tried talking to him about it but he says nothing is wrong (basicly he NEVER wants to talk about problems)


Lads points of views too plz. or anyone else in the situation. Thanks :)

Answer 1

Start looking..............it's almost over

Answer 2

I don't think he is interested in this relationship anymore.
if he doesn't want to talk, be with you etc, the writing is on the wall.
Perhaps he has found someone else and doesn't know how to tell you.
Some lads are cowards and just avoid things.
You need to ask him outright. You deserve to know..
There is no use playing this charade.
You both deserve to be in a relationship where both parties love one another.
Unfortunately the signs don't look good to me.
I would give him an out and see how he reacts.
Tell him you are moving out or he needs to find a new place.... You will then and only then get your answer.
I think you are afraid to know the truth, but you will drive yourself crazy waiting around for someone like this....
You need to get on with life and have new adventures and experiences.....

Answer 3

He has become comfortable with you. Probably too comfortable. He feels like its ok to hang with friends now. I think its pretty natural after moving in together and almost being married!!!

Answer 4

Sounds to me he may have someone else during the week.

Answer 5

Simple: "It's either you, or the pub" !