I am 16 years old. I am a sohpomore in highschool. I am an athletic girl. I run cross country, play volleyball and run track. I am very nice. I like to talk to lots of people. I think I am attractive. All of my friends tell me I am very pretty. But I don't have a boyfriend. Is something wrong with me? The link to some pics is below...
http://360.yahoo.com/my_profile-Z8dv3f0wdqQJIpgq_EqX;_ylt=ApRrZsDR7GOcV8ioiBo7Xb.yAOJ3
2007-03-09 03:57:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I make good grades.
2007-03-09 04:00:05 · update #1
dont worry about that you are 16 and have plenty of years to find someone. Usually the best way to find someone is to not look and they will find you
2007-03-09 04:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by kabooki1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing wrong with you is that you believe that there is something wrong with you on the basis that you do not have a boyfriend. You are a pretty girl with a lot going for you and any guy would be completely stupid to not want to date you. Perhaps if there is someone that you like, you could find the strength and take the initiative to ask them out...However, usually when you aren't searching for love, love finds you so for now enjoy being single and remember that someone will eventually come along that will be completely knocked off their feet by you (if there isn't already and they just haven't showed it) but until then there is absolutely nothing wrong with you and there is absolutely nothing wrong with being single either. Good luck and take care :)
2007-03-09 12:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I am a 22 year old female who has been married going on 2 and half years with three children. When I was in high school I did not have any confidence in myself. I was always jumping between boyfriends expecially my sophmore year and on, I was going between this one guy that I thought I loved and other guys, I dated the one guy off and on for 5 years, until it just went to far. You need to look inside yourself and love yourself for who you are, when you love yourself and don't care what the guys think than they will chase you. Make yourself look unavailable that you could care less who they are or what they are intrested in. Now that I am where I am in life I see old friends all the time at work and they try hitting on me, I am no longer interested or care, I just want to do my job go hame and be with my children and myu husband. So, find yourself because you cannot try to be with somebody if you don't know what you want or who you are. You are what is important. Honey, you are young and need to just have fun, so get you a couple of your girlfriends and you guys go to dances together and go out together just the three of you, but do not go with the intentions to pick up guys go with the goal to just have fun and enjoy yourself!!!
2007-03-09 12:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Genie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know when I was in high school I was very shy about asking girls out. Look around your group of guy friends odds are some of them like you and are just too shy to say any thing.
2007-03-09 12:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by mike m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an attractive young lady. My guess is that the guys are intimidated by you. The best bet is to start flirting with guys that you like
2007-03-09 12:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to get a boyfriend? Or do you expect one to fall into your lap?
One of the things you'll learn (hopefully) is that not everything comes to you just because you think you deserve it. Get out there and actively pursue one!
2007-03-09 12:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by your school activites,maybe you're too busy to have one right now. Can you make time for a boyfriend?
2007-03-09 12:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by t1riel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with you . some of the guys in your school might be shy and they don't know how to tell you that they like you. don't get in a hurry and date a loser . wait , time will come.
2007-03-09 12:09:17 · answer #8 · answered by blessed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need a boyfriend? Just enjoy your life and if one comes along then great.
2007-03-09 12:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by desertblue62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get out there yourself dont wait for a guy to suddenly turn up.
2007-03-09 12:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by will 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋