About 8 months ago I lost my virginity to the only girl I did ever actually love her name was Mell. I was in love with her and she was crazy about me. We had so much fun and she always smiled and laugh around me which was rare because she was always depressed from her ex. She lied to her best friend tho and had relations with me when she promise not to so I couldnt be with mell anymore(alot more happen then jus this aswhile)
Mell has a boyfriend now but I'm still in love with her and I cant stand that fact. We have been seeing each other more than usual now. She always comes over when she fighting with her bf or just bored. I always look into her deep blue eyes and the past few weeks she has just look right back into my eyes and will we sit there we just get lost in the moment. And when ever we drink she alot closer to me. My best friend who has known her even longer thinks she still like me and I'm starting to think that to. But how can I get past her bf? what can I offer? what to do?
2007-03-09 03:52:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get over it. seriously. she has a boyfriend, and the only reason you are still wanting her is because you lost your virginity to her. its normal. and it sounds like she is using you.
2007-03-09 03:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will most likely always have those kind of feeling for your first love.I guess you could just come out and ask her if she would rather be with you and be happy or stay with her current bf.The best thing you have to offer is happiness and love.Nothing gets better than that.Have confidence in yourself.Just ask her.If she says yes I want to be with you then you got yourself a girlfriend,and if she says she rather not than at leased you tried.Just know in your heart, that you do have something to offer.You always can start a new relationship with someone else.That would probably make her jealous and wished she'd said yes.Good luck I hope you find someone great.
2007-03-09 12:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by cynomynG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont offer nothing.But the next time she comes to your house tell her you want to be with her.Stop hiding your feelings, tell Mell how you feel.Maybe she might come out of the closet.
2007-03-09 12:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by thena h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're so weak you're allowing a chick to play you! Where they do that at! Get a life outside of Mell.!She has one outside of you!
2007-03-09 11:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by Khalil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really like his girl???
She sounds like she does not know what she wants. U need to give her some time and some space. She may just be using you to get back at her man. U also have to think about it like this if she is doing this to him will she be faithful to U.
Make sure you use protection U may know were u been, but her man?????
2007-03-09 12:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by Natural 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 her and tell her how u feel. u may be surprised and who now mabey shea still in love wit u
2007-03-09 11:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her about how you feel. it is a risk that you should take. if you do not then you might me missing out on something huge in your life. we all have to sacrifice for the greater good.
2007-03-09 11:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
All you can do is tell her what you told us when she comes over to see you.
2007-03-09 11:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth
2007-03-09 12:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by 3aloosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋