well he says he wants 2 be with me 4 the rest of his life. My parents love him and well he is 17 and I am almost 15. He is just 2 years and 4 months older than me. I am going 2 have him meet my real mom. 2 see if she likes him and if hse does than I know he is the right guy for me. Should I be with him until he never wants 2 be with me anymore. I don't know need help
2007-03-09 03:52:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uh... what seems to be the problem here? If you really love him, then why are you having so much trouble deciding if you want to be together?
It's not like you have to get married anytime soon.
2007-03-09 03:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by Odysseus J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well coming form a girl his age, its good that he is still with you but you may get hurt in the end and i don't mean for this to hurt you in any way but he will be 18 soon and once he gets that taste of freedom are you sure he will want to be tied up with a girlfriend? i was 16 dating an 18 year old and thought i was in love and that he was the one. But he left me because he turned 18 and wanted to be on his own.Just be sure that it is what you both want and start thinking about your future.Is he accepting of what you want to do with your life?How often do you fight and how dumb is what your fights are over? Just be careful. it does happen where you find your soul mate at a young age and if that is the case, then you have nothing to worry about. but if you have any doubt in your mind then you should probably move on. if your parents ever try to break you up... no matter how upset you get always do what they say because if you don't it will only make matters worse.If he loves you then he will have no problem waiting for you when your 18.
2007-03-09 12:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Linds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem? So some 17 yr old wants to have intimate relations with you until he moves on, how is this a special situation?
No, he won't be with you for the rest of his life. He is 17 and his testosterone is at maximum levels. Whether your real mother likes him means nothing. If you understand that he will move on, and you're prepared for this reality, you can do what you want.
2007-03-09 11:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would never have my 15 year old daughter date or love a guy who is 17 years old... nope.. i wait until she get out of high schoole then she can see him if she still have feelings for him....
Some time when they truly in love in hight school but later out world things change... so be careful what you do... again pls don't hav esex with him until for sure you guys getting married... believe me my sister in law got pregnant and she was 15... guess what that guy 17 left her... so I want you to know that you got to be careful and be sex free becasue you don't have to worry about take care the baby, taking care money for clothes food and all that... and so I know you know but I would do the samething to let my daughter know she only 3 now.. so smiling
2007-03-09 11:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're only 15 and he's only 17. i really hope you don't believe he's going to be there for the rest of you life. It's not gonna happen sweety.
2007-03-09 11:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by Felicia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me I feel you are too young to be getting involved with someone. You need to enjoy your childhood, and plan a career before getting into a serious relationship.
2007-03-09 11:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by spikester83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is right. If hes the one then go for it. Just becareful and dont get hurt too early.
2007-03-09 12:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it ! Just make sure he is ok and if you start to see like abusive behavior then live him you don't want to get yourself into that.
2007-03-09 12:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what exactly do u need help with??? he likes u, u like him, ur parents like him. So what is the problem???? im confused!!!!
2007-03-09 11:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its true if Ur mom likes him hes good for u but if she doe sent then show her threes more to him that Wat she thinks.
2007-03-09 12:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by Kagome M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋