hei guys.. for the most of my life i have been very very shy...i had never approached a lady,.,,ever. The thing is there was this girl at college who has been looking at me and smiling at me every time she sees me, it started like 4 months ago and i have never had the guts to talk to her.
And TODAY i gathered enough guts and approached her asked her her name and what she studies... and then listened to her alot. Since she was busy reading when i approached her so i told her i would see her around.
Did i do good ? Ladies?
i have never felt this confident in my life
what do i do next? i really want her to be my girlfriend.
only serious question....dont ruin my day please.
2007-03-09 03:34:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bravo!! Good Job, that is the start to something good.
You didn't over due it. Just keep the small talk going like that, and a couple of more times of that, then you should feel confident to offer her your number or ask for hers.
2007-03-09 03:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good for you! The next time you see her, smile & ask her how her day was. Ask her about the classes she takes.
As you're kind of shy, you might want to ask her if she wants to grab a coffee or movie sometime. Or you can wait until the third time you see her to go out for coffee or movie or to grab a bite to eat. Don't rush it, let it come naturally & don't make it look like you're too eager by rushing through your speech. And yes, paying attention to what she says is good for it shows you are interested in what she has to say. You're doing fine. Don't mention falling for her just yet until at least 5 dates. You don't want to scare her away. Good luck.
Oh - and you did introduce yourself right? Remember when talking to her, also talk a bit about you. What classes you take, what you like.
2007-03-09 03:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GOOD FOR YOU!!!
Ask her out for coffe, or a bite to eat, talk about her lots (girls love to talk about themselves). The more u get to know her, the less intimidating it is! Good for u buddy!
2007-03-09 04:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey...chill..you did well ..just go on with the small talks and sometimes if you are quiet enough and not reveal about you too much she might be interested in you
2007-03-09 03:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by ugogirl_gurl_cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u listened to her carefully.....u might be knowing quite about her now....so take it from there ...ask her how was ur ______ ot just how was ur day.........and then when u feel confident ask her out for a movie and then tell her that you are falling for her.....dont say love or like ...just say falling
2007-03-09 03:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by J D 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh I wish i could have done that. I'm like so proud of you and you have now inspired me to do the same. Oh I have to do it now. I am now your biggest fan.You should keep trying to talk to her.
2007-03-09 03:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Dreamer 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well its definatley a good start , dont u think, consdiering yuovve never approached someone, tahts good im proud of u even thoguh i dont know you
2007-03-09 03:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Very good,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I amm so proud of you,,,just like our friend err,,,,well just like she said keep talking,and maybe you could help her with her homeworks and stuff....
2007-03-09 03:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i wont ruin your day..take her behind the toilets and bang her bro
2007-03-09 03:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by IC4NDY_ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋