2007-03-09 03:33:21 · 12 answers · asked by DAVE H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The shower
As a bridemaid you will need to buy some of the food, and drinks. You should help out decorating the place where the shower will be held. The maid of honour is the top leader and should have more say on what should be done, just help pitch in with the help she needs.
The wedding
As a bridesmaid you will have to buy your own dress and shoes (unless the bride as told you otherwise) You will go to dress fitting to make sure you dress fits, you will help the bride by doing little things that she needs help on, either it be party favors or invitations( she will ask you) You should offer your help to her and tell her that you are there if she needs you.
2007-03-09 03:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The bridesmaids should offer assistance to the bride on an as-needed basis. Bridesmaids should plan a wedding shower or in the case of a large wedding party, separate into groups and plan more than one shower if desired. It is ultimately the bride's day and a bridesmaid should offer a lending hand, a shoulder to cry on, and be moral support on the big day!
2007-03-09 03:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by ncmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on how much help the bride wants with the wedding, and the bridesmaid might together with other bridesmaids or the family members to plan the shower.
2007-03-09 06:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of a bridesmaid with a ROLL unless she's buttering one and eating it at the reception.
However, traditionally, the bridesmaid has no ROLE in planning the wedding. As for showers, those are usually planned by female friends and/or relatives of the bride, who may or may not be in the wedding party.
The bride and her family and the groom and his family are responsible for planning the wedding.
2007-03-09 04:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by §Sally§ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The maid of honor planns the wedding shower. The bride plans the wedding the bridesmaids just help out with tasks.
2007-03-09 03:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't plan the wedding. If the bride needs help with something, you should help her. Your job is to help her if she needs it. You need to get with the maid of honor at see if she needs any help throwing the bridal shower & bachlorette party. You should offer to help pay for the parties. Bridesmaids should help the bride go dress shopping- if she wants you there. One bridesmaid (at least) should go to the final fitting with the bride. Some dresses require assistance to get into, and it can be tricky. Someone at the dress shop will show you what to do on the big day. Offer to help her with anything she needs help with and don't drop the ball. If she asks you to do something- do it!
2007-03-09 03:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bridesmaids dont really plan the wedding that up to the bride and to the shower they are helping with the set up and planning of the shower
2007-03-09 03:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bridesmaids are just there to help the bride whenever she may need help.....usually assign smaller duties to bridesmaids and larger ones you the maid of honor
2007-03-09 03:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by Soon2BMrsCarlson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no specific because every bride is different. Normally you are to help the bride with everything that she needs. Yes, normally would help through a shower for friends and family. Good Luck!
2007-03-09 03:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by brezzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically you are there to compliment the bride. You should help her with questions, decisions, and opnions. the shower is typically thrown by the maid/matron of honour but you are certainly avaliable for help. Just be supportive and help out when asked.
2007-03-09 03:36:54 · answer #10 · answered by kerri c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋