Why do guys just think its a game all the time...cant you just be real once in awhile?
2007-03-09 03:20:59 · 17 answers · asked by Shanni1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you can't say that is the case for all guys. Obviously you have been falling for the wrong guys. Don't be gullible. It should take time for you to actually completely trust someone and let them into your heart. Keep an open mind that the person you are dealing may not be sincere. Guard you heart, and be careful with who you let take it.
2007-03-09 03:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dint think you should blame all guys some guys actually do care about your feelings and would never want to hurt you. Some just get caught up in all the hype and dont cheat intently. Some are still young and are not sure what they want and want to explore their options. They want to see what it is they're looking for and want. I know it sucks when its your heart that's on the line but when they're done doing all that their doing their going to realize what they lost. And its going to make you a stronger person going through that. Just dont put yourself in the position where they can play you and toy with your emotions.
2007-03-09 11:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Alli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some that just play games all the time to avoid any real intimacy due to fear of being hurt. its not all men, but a large majority. There are some good ones out there, otherwise the rest just need to grow up. remember it takes men alot longer to mature and realize they want to settle down... you want him when hes ready anyway. if hes playing games, let it go.... he will be back if and when hes ready, IF its meant to be..
2007-03-09 11:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by coco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very simple, assholes play games, nice guys are for real, and this applies to women too i'm sorry to say. the only reason a guy would play games who is for real is because he's been hurt one too many times and is just having fun. it's not really intentional
2007-03-09 11:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by yodidi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys are like that...there are some really good ones out there, they are just hard to find.
age has nothing to do with it...older guys still play games too...don't know why, just know there are still good ones out there and try to stay away from the idiots.
be cool...
2007-03-09 11:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont lump us all together into a big ball of crap. Some of us have feelings too. All people play games believe it or not. Women too!!!
2007-03-09 11:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel sorry about women who feel like this. honestly sweetie not all men are like that. yes it is hard to find a good men these days but is possible trust me. yeah some guys are players and someothers hurt girl cuz they are inmature or cuz they are too afraid to let their gurd down. but some men are incredible and sweet and funny and great. i know i used to be feel like that, u know the all men are the same.. but is not true. i finally found my prince and he is not perfect but i love him and he will never hurt me cuz he loves me too. dont worry u'll find him sooner or later.
2007-03-09 11:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys dont know their feelings so they cant be real. they just think about what they want and we have to throw them a bone once and a while.
2007-03-09 11:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by Proud Mommy!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it may be a control issue with some and others, they are afraid to let their guard down so they play games instead.
2007-03-09 11:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by Barbados Chick 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think its just a sign of maturing at least it was for me once you grow a little and realize its retarded then you stop playing games and you just become honest
2007-03-09 11:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by KrazySweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋