My boyfriend is a junior in high school and im a senior. He really hates school, mainly cuz he is pressured to get good grades by his parents. He is always complaing about school. I don't know how to help him. I don't like school all that much either, but i just try to shut up and just try to get through. Are there any ways that i can help him?
2007-03-09 03:16:36 · 19 answers · asked by four_eyed_bandgeek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you are a grade older than him that means you already too khis classes so you can help him do good i nschool maybe offer him some sorta rewards for studying with you and that way you take pressure of him, you reward him and you also get to spend time with him
2007-03-09 03:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by KrazySweetie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is going to be tough for your boyfriend, and eventhough he hates school with a passion, he needs to face reality and do the best he can, If he quits school he will never know what he can do in the future, that is why it is important to finish school so you can move on to the other important things. If he knows what is good for him he will stay in school and do the best he can or he will regret it. Encourage him to do the best he can and help him the best that you can after all there is only so much you can do since you are in senior and he is in junior. Keep telling him he can do anything as long as he sets his mind to it.
2007-03-09 11:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way i take school is just chilling. Make the teachers like him. That should cut of some slack, just maybe. Tell him to take it easy school isnt just everything. Or it maybe cause he is being bully or some something like that. But mainly tell to relax and go with the flow thats how i roll and its alright i guess
2007-03-09 11:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by Ivan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, before we could try help others we should help ourselves up.... For what people can see you from your acomplishemnt this also reflects/ponder to them. So, i think the better idea for that is that you may be sight as a good example to your bf by doing the first move for a change!, and let him seek the good result of your deeds but before that let yourself learn first the outcome of your works, and if you'll come across that this has been a great achievement to your life then let him be inspired and that you could able to work together for the better .... Let him realize that education is indispensable for your future... But if he still refuse for that idea...well, i think the best idea for that is to "PRAY" for him and let God control His life... ok! just always keep up positive.....
2007-03-09 11:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Aprylle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you face him and stop whine all the time, sounds like he doesnt want to grow up???? Why dont you sit him down and ask him questions where he does want for his future, if he tell you about that, then teach him that if he pass high school and enter college then he will get his goal that he wishes for. You want to keep him as your whine boyfriend? No i dont think so.
2007-03-09 11:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell you the truth you are already doing the best you can. if he doesn't want to go to school that is his problem! And just try to be there for him if he needs someone.
Good Luck! :) !
2007-03-09 11:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well start tutoring him and all give him some extra help on the things you know. It will probably releave the load. Yes tell him to finish school and that you will wait for him to graduate also.
2007-03-09 11:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by daddy's lil devil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha wait till you get out of school and your working 12 hour days 6 days a week for a corperation just to get recognition and climb the ladder.
Or you could flip burgers.
Life doesnt get easier outside of school, enjoy it while it lasts.
2007-03-09 11:19:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you can let him know the importance of studying and let him relax after school by going out for a movie or a chill?? :)
2007-03-09 11:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by yuki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be positive and supportive...I hated high school to but its over before you know it.
2007-03-09 11:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋