haya im not pregnant and one of my mates has gone round and told everyone!! ive been denaying it all day but i dont no what to do now! also cos of this my bf wont talk to me!!!!!! please help????
2007-03-09 03:13:16 · 12 answers · asked by amz 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
well if it were me and my bf didn't believe me about such a serious thing then i would say "bye bye loser". he should trust you regardless of silly rumours. DONT take a test in front of him you have nothing to justify, keep your distance and he'll come running back with his tale between his legs soon enough xxx
2007-03-09 05:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by louise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
Sorry to hear what has happened to you
I would very much question your friends motives she is no real friend to do this to you I would ask her why she did this explain to her how hurt you are by her lies. I don't mean to patronise you but you sound young to me but judging by your boyfriends reaction you are well rid of him, just imagine if you were really pregnant this would be the response you would get from him let this be your wake up. Put them behind you and rise above it people will soon realise it was only malicious gossip the truth always comes out I do understand how hurt you must be feeling but my dear trust me on this you are far better off without these two.
2007-03-09 11:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Brenda B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to grow up!!
As for everyone else what`s it got to do with them anyway, and you said one of your `mates` spread the rumour. With friends like like that who needs enemies. I`d dump her pretty quickly.
Time will show everyone the truth, til then stick your nose in the air and don`t bother to deny it. The more you protest the more some people will enjoy you being uncomfortable.
2007-03-09 11:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you change your mates if that what she has said. First of all you need to confront your bf and put him right about the situation. As long as you know the truth and he does what does it matter what everyone else thinks?
2007-03-09 11:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by spensmum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore the rumours and dump your boyfriend.He's obviously not very supportive. What IF you were pregnant? His reaction doesn't look very promising for the future.He should have spoken to you and offered his support. If he is old enough to have sex then he should be mature enough to talk to you. Get rid of him. You can do better!!
2007-03-13 10:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by Laura H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i wouldn't worry too much about the rumours, they will have something else to gossip about tomorrow. However, Its a definate blessing your not pregnant. That's some boyfriend, not talking to you, just imagine if you were pregnant, where would that leave you.
2007-03-09 11:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by thepurestone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your bf to buy a pregnancy test and do it to prove your not and as for everyone else tell them your not and that however told them is lying and feeling jealous as you have a bf and they dont like it. i had this done to me and i know its not nice but i found out who had said it and set her staright aswell it soon stopped
2007-03-09 11:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your BF to trust you, everyone else will figure it out when you dont' start growing a bump!!!
2007-03-09 11:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by mark 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure they will believe you in 9 months! Your bf should understand if not he is terrible x
2007-03-13 07:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by Zalia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a test infront of your bf, and ignore the roumours just say whats it got to do with you if people ask you know the truth
2007-03-09 11:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by nicolefrenzy 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋