when my man wants to have sex alls he does is pull down my pants go at it out get done and fall asleep. he doesnt even bother to touch me kiss me or hold me or anything. has all the fizz run out? am i just a blow up doll now?
2007-03-09 02:14:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he is just doing it just because...u definitely need to speak with him cause it doesn't sound good
2007-03-09 02:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It is sad but true. The shelf-life of the average relationship is about the same as a loaf of cheap bread. You deserve better. You should tell him exactly how you feel. Put him off. No more sex until he treats you with more respect.
2007-03-09 10:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You are. And you deserve much better. But don't throw this Love away. Make him see that you are someone that has feelings and needs. You have a Heart? That he's not wantin' to talk to. Tell him, "No Heart? No Lovin'. `Cause, from now on? You only wanna Make Love. If he ain't In Love? He ain't making Love." Explain to him that Making Love, ain't droppin' Trou and goin' at it. If he doesn't listen? Leave him.
2007-03-09 10:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but maybe you should try to heat things up a little more. Try massage, showers, even foods like chocolate, whip cream. But have fun with it sex shouldn't have to feel like a chore.
2007-03-09 10:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him be that way. You have to guide him and tell him that's not cool. If he's unwilling to put in the effort, then there's something wrong. Nip this in the bud now before it becomes routine.
2007-03-09 10:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He apparently is not meeting your needs. Talk to him about your disappointments, your desires, your expectations. If, after opening up your heart to him, he still ignores you, then it may be time to find someone else more sensitive to you and less selfish.
2007-03-09 10:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you need more cuddling ,for play,like when you first started dating.also tell him the quickies must stop that your not being aroused no-re,fa field.
2007-03-09 10:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by walterferguson2226 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him. I mean, why are you staying with him if he is so insensitive?
2007-03-09 10:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋