My boyfriend of 5 months said that we do not have a sexual connection but, we have a regular connection. What does he mean by that and can I do anything to change that?
2007-03-09 02:09:14 · 16 answers · asked by The Worrywart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But he said in exact word that he doesnt want to break up
2007-03-09 02:13:43 · update #1
He said he's accustomed to aggressive type girls that when they want it they just take it but obviously I cant do that if hes not erect. Any ideas for to be aggressive>
2007-03-09 02:17:45 · update #2
it sounds like a lot of double talk..
ask him what he is talking about as you do not have a clue
no, you can't do anything until he tells you what he is saying
2007-03-09 02:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is boyspeak, your mind is too immature for sex if you worry about such ramblings of a guy high on hormones. what is a sexual connection anyways? if you figure that one out, I wanna know, if you are having sex , then you are having a sexual connection. he is trying to justify keeping you around while having sex with someone he is more connected with . what is a "regular connection" also? guys talk so much crap to mess with a females head. don't let him mess with your, if you don't have a " sexual connection" then you aren't having sex with him anymore. tell him you are looking for someone you connect with.
2007-03-09 11:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a firm believer in that if two people don't have good sex, then why further the relationship. People have a "fit" when having sex, and if you don't fit well together, then it's just not enjoyable to have. He is saying he likes you enough, but the sex isn't quite "right". If you haven't HAD sex yet, then he means that he's gay and you need a REAL man!!
2007-03-09 10:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sean M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
means he isnt comfortable with the sex, whehter because you dont want it enough, or because you dont do it how he wants, or the opposite . means he loves you more emotionaly and thats scarey because he will more than likely want that sexual satisfation and find it somewhere else other than you. find out what you or he can do diffreent to maybe make it better. and if he says he "just doesnt feel it withyou " well then honey, you need to move on from this sucker.
2007-03-09 10:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you keep it at a regular connection he might break up with you or he might find a best of both worlds(sideline Ho) if you have a sexual connection it will last longer some connections only last so long
2007-03-09 10:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by D.Gunn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is that he has found sexua pleasure from somewhere else and it is better than you can do so therefore all you can do is just sit back and accept the fact that his heart is not wiht you nomore and just move on babygirl there is many more apples on the tree and fpr the next bpoyfriend remebre "what yuo cant do the next ***** will"
2007-03-09 10:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by Purple's WiFeY!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is looking at getting some tail somewhere else. You can try to work it out more with him, but you should evaluate if he is someone you see yourself with, after getting a better picture of who he is.
2007-03-09 10:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Chris M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u ask him to simply define ''sexual connection'' and ''regular connection' cos 'm only aware of the divine connection. .
2007-03-09 10:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by T-buzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask him to clarify what he means. It could be that he means he thinks of you as a friend but not as a lover. But you need to get it from the horse's mouth, so to speak.
2007-03-09 10:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by catewithers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what this means. Stop having sex with him and see if that solves the problem.
2007-03-09 10:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋