Despite my best attempts to attract that 'special someone', I have not been able to attract the romantic interests of a girl in nearly three years and, at nearly 24, this is starting to worry me.
My birthday is coming up in roughly a week and a half and I was wondering if any of you might have any advice on how I might be able to use this fact to spark a girl’s romantic interest, even if only for an evening.
I already plan on a club that evening but do no know how to make girls aware of this fact without appearing ostentatious or how to employ it in such a way as to attract the interests of women.
Also, I live in the DC area and would be open to any suggestions in regards to which bars/clubs would be best for such a celebration.
While I know that it is not the most moral course of action to attempt to find a girl who is interested in a one night "roll in the hay", I have been alone for the past three years and would really enjoy some companionship, if only for the evening.
2007-03-09 02:06:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I live an hour away from DC ;) ;) wanna hang out???
2007-03-09 02:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by Dama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't try to use the Birthday card particularly--just go out, have a blast, and try to meet women all night. If you go out trying to get laid, you are guaranteed to fail--if you go out and have a good time, maybe someone will decide to get to know that really fun guy who keeps wearing that stupid cone hat long after anyone else would have taken it off. A lot of the initial attraction is counter-intuitive--the stupidist stuff seems to work out, and the harder you try, the easier you fail.
A lot of the key is that you have to have some balance as to how into each other you appear to be. Imagine a strange woman coming up to you and trying to take you home immediately--sounds like a wet dream when you say it, but if you think about it you'd start wondering what she's up to, whether she's crazy, diseased, or kidding, and she'd suddenly become a notch or two uglier--and you'd run away. So don't try to do that--even if you know you'd love to take her home, make her earn it! If she says something mean or boring, act less interested. If she says something endearing or funny, give her a positive response. Don't give in to her demands or whims, but don't stop having fun either (if she asks you for something, only do it for her if it is something you'd do for a male friend).
As for where in DC--I'd say get to Adams Morgan, that way if the first bar stinks you can walk to the next. I like it better than Georgetown. (McFadden's has been weird for me--usually I start out having a really bad time, then something happens and it turns into a good night--luck I guess.) You also might want to consider Arlington if you are a smoother talker than you are a dancer. There are still plenty of women there, but a lot more places in the bars where it is quiet enough to talk without yelling.
2007-03-09 10:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tyler! I hear that and I've been there! Have faith, mon ami. She is out there and she will get to you or vise versa. It may not be on your birthday--no guarantees on that! But, go out and have fun at the club, for sure! If you meet someone, have fun! Just remember, trust and be true to yourself!! If you don't have a good feeling about someone, don't let your one-eyed wonder talk you into a roll in the hay that could end up being a ride into hell.
2007-03-09 10:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with male friends and have them announce to everyone that it is your birthday. Hopefully a group of girls will take interest. Best of luck and Happy Birthday.
2007-03-09 10:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You see you are putting the p**** on a pedistal. No I'm just playing.
But, I do think you are trying to hard. Just go out, be yourself, relax, and have a good time. No expectations or pressure.
2007-03-09 10:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by DizziDazi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to a bar and talk to a women with a light colored drink if she is drinking a mixed drink she is wild an crazy like. so good luck
2007-03-09 10:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are both consenting adults ..maybe she wants the same thing as you do.///??? yes, it is a matter of luck
there are tons of bars..but i like china town and the Hard Rock Cafe
2007-03-09 10:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like nobody wants a relationship at these days :(
2007-03-09 10:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Smashing Pumkie pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think the fact that it's ur birthday will help... alot of alcohol might!
but be yourself, be charming and look hot! good luck!
enjoy your birthday.
2007-03-09 10:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by veeta675 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a T-shirt printed , "my birthday's today! would you like a roll in the hay?" "all I want for my birthday is casual sex"
2007-03-09 10:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by ann s 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋