I split up with my long term boyfriend then we got back together even tho i hurt him (not by cheating) and he didnt trust me, dont think he was 100% sure if it was a good idea to get back with me but he did anyway. Before it went wront we had a really good relationship and were both very happy. when we got back together initially he was fine and greatful that we were back together but as time went on he went very off, he didnt contact me much,he wasnt the same and he seemed a lot less interested. I couldnt handle him being so off so i suggested we finish.Now i want him back, he made me soooo happy,he is the only guy i trust,he never lied, he was an amazing boyfriend & we had such a good time when things were good. he is husband material &i really wanna b with him and miss him.i have tried to get over him but i cant,we have been split up for3months.i am always goin out keepin busy to take my mind off it but i still want him.i have been with other men but its not the same.wot should i do
2007-03-09 01:58:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really feel for you.... but these situations don't always have an unhappy ending. I went through something similar with my boyfriend and we had broken up for about three months and it dawned on me that this was the guy i wanted to spend the rest of my life with.... i did the only thing i could, got in contact with him, we met up face to face, i told him exactly how i felt and was completely honest with him... that way although I'd left myself open for rejection i was sure that at least I'd done everything i could to get him back.... and left the ball in his court.... two years on we've been married for six months. you should get back in touch with him, if you're really sure that he's the one... let him make the decision.... be patient, if he wants you he knows where to find you..... Good Luck! x
2007-03-09 02:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by La Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point working yourself up about it wondering what to do or think, just bite the bullet and ask to talk. You don't have to do it face to face even on the phone could be easier. Just tell him how you feel and let him know how you felt when you had got back together. Then sit back and let him tell you how he feels and why he acted the way he did. Ask him how he wants to leave things. You may well be able toi clear up the problem and he might suggest getting back, on the other hand be prepared he might have realised you are not the one for him and just want things to stay the way they are. Either way you will know for sure whats going on and you will be able to start moving on with your life.
2007-03-09 02:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to sit down and talk to him. it sounds like you really regret your decision so i suggest you tell him exactly how you feel. Everything you wrote here. You could tell him to his face or write a letter to him get it all out in the open and leave the ball in his court. That way you know you have tried and in some way you might be able to find closure from that. If he' still not interested, you know you need to try to move on. I wish you lots of luck and i hope that it goes your way. however, if it doesn't', keep doing what you have been doing and trying to move on. Even though its 3 months, its still early days yet, especially if you were in a long term relationship.
2007-03-09 02:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 23:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm glad u let him go. some people are selfish and want to hold on to something that is already dead. i know u miss him but it takes time. if u really love him and want him back just PRAY about it. PRAY that God leads u in the right direction to learn from your past mistakes and that your ex can see that you've changed and you two can move forward someday. If he comes back then great but if not then that's not God's plan for you two to be together.
2007-03-09 02:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by so_sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the fact that YOU ruined the realtionship - learn from it and don't do it next time - move on - learn a lesson and accept responsibility for what you did! Sorry to sound hard but you are in this position becasue of something YOU did - live with it!
2007-03-09 02:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by jamand 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear.. my boyfriends good"female friend is currently in the same boat, and she is trying to get him round to her house to drink wine and ask his advice, i told him if i was the ex i wud run a mile from her.. not saying this is the case with u, but the way i look at it if its meant to be it will be, some things happen for a reason..anyhow i wish u the very best and hang in there go out with ur female pals and have fun..
2007-03-09 05:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know that you want him back? Maybe give him a shout to say Hi. If you don't feel the same from him, you might have to chalk it up to the famous saying "if it's meant to be, it will be" just know that God knows what he wants for you and it might not be him. You have to just go about your business and if it's going to happen it will. It just might not be at the time that you want it. Good luck.
2007-03-09 02:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by Unknown, CA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may have been the one for you but, you might not be the one for him, don't take it too personally but an ex is an ex for a reason...try talking and seeing what his feelings are
2007-03-09 02:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by xx_lush_xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on baby there better men out there than him.
2007-03-09 02:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by junior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋