when i find someone attractive i cant help but look at the alot and there certain body parts! do girls like this or find it creepy? or make them feel good?? some views please thanks
2007-03-09 01:49:58 · 18 answers · asked by mysterious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, if they start looking your way... look into their eyes. and if you can't, that probably means you're just lusting for them. And well, that'll definitely creep them out. While "staring" may be normal in moderate dosages, too much can be unhealthy.
Dude, looking may be harmless to them, but not to you. I suggest you make friendly moves, or get another hobby.
2007-03-09 01:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Intense staring comes off as creepy. Shy glances are the way to go.
As for staring at certain body parts, don't do it. If a girl catches you staring chances are she'll be offended. It makes her feel like she's a piece of meat and it's not the best feeling in the world.
2007-03-09 10:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by All I can be is me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely creepy. Especially the "body parts" staring. It's rude. It's odd. It makes me uncomfortable. A glance and a smile is ok. If you just stare and never say anything...not even hello...that is just weird, and I would walk up to you and probably say "What the f*ck is wrong with you? You're eye-stalking me. STOP IT." Sorry, but it just weirds me out beyond all reason. But then again, I'm kind of outspoken. And...that is NOT chemistry. Chemistry is when BOTH people notice each other, smile, and START TALKING and FEEL something. Not just STARING.
2007-03-09 09:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a man I did an experiment. I used to stare a fair bit at women and smile when I liked the looks of a woman. I also hooked up with a lot of women during that time. Women would come up to me in the library for example, and ask me out for a coffee. So, maybe it seems creepy to stare, but then it got results. Now I then tried for about a year to not stare (because somebody said to me 'don't stare!). Well, I haven't had any hook ups whatsoever and nobody flirted with me. Answer: while women on here will complain about staring, it is the only thing that will get her attention and start the ball of chemistry rolling.
2007-03-09 09:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by Bob M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's rude and it could scare them. Be careful about it. Nothing is wrong with glances as you've heard from most of the women on here. And if she looks back smile and look her in the eyes. That shows her that you like her and not just her good looks. Nothing is wrong with physical attraction but be sure to control it and not let it go into lust. Lust is what you have and you have a bad case of it if all you can do is check out boobs and butts there buddy. It could be called eye stalking and sexual harassment in some cases. Watch it there. There are more subtle and gentle ways of letting a girl or woman know you like her and her good looks. It's called verbal communication and it's also called common sense in that you make good eye contact with her if she looks back at you. If she smiles and looks back then you need to go up and talk to her. If it's a dirty look like what the hell are u looking at then leave and find another girl. But for your own sake stop checking out the opposite sex like that before you wind up in jail for eye stalking. It's sick and you sort of sound perverted there.
2007-03-09 10:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'd make me feel really uncomfortable if you stared at 'body parts'...
There are better ways of showing a girl that you like them. Instead of 'complimenting' with your eyes, try giving a girl a compliment instead - she'll be flattered. I guarantee you'll get much better feedback than just staring.
2007-03-09 09:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by Tess 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it is kinda creepy. Around here, (no offense to any race), there are alot of Mexican men and if there are alot of them together they will stare me down. That really creeps me out.
2007-03-09 09:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
for some girls they find it very nice because some of us gurls think that if u stare at certian body parts we are cute or sexy in a way so yes some gurls like it but then again some gurls may hate it. like they mite think you are a perve so yes some of them do.
2007-03-09 09:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never do that!!
only look when she isnt looking, or look but dont get caught.
it never makes us feel good!!
my husband, sometimes stares at me to wind me up. it freaks me out even though he is my husband and been together for ages
if u really fancy her, just ask her out.
there is more chance her syaing yes, than u staring at her and feaking her out-she'll say no then
2007-03-09 09:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy so I get a little nervous when guys stare at me. So, maybe a little creepy.
2007-03-09 09:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by prettyting 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋