ok... my boyfriends best friends all hate me and i dont like them that much either... we've been going out for 5 months and all of them think he can do way better than me... i no it shouldnt matter wat other ppl say but anyone have any ideas on how to get along with them a little better, they pretty much hate me...
2007-03-09 01:49:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you know why they might hate you? Unfortunetly, it could be that they think you're going to steal his time away from them, in which case they need to grow up.
Hell, they need to grow up anyway. It's his decision who he dates, and his friends should respect that.
Maybe you could ask him to talk to his friends and find out why they don't like you?
2007-03-09 01:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Luviticus 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Probably the best things you can do are make sure your boyfriend knows he is free to spend time with his friends every week if he so desires and find some common ground with his friends. Is there a sport you could all watch together?
Quite often friends hate others girl/boyfriends simply because it means they get less time with their friend. Hang in there.
2007-03-09 01:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Bethe W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should take a second look at yourself.. Carry around a digital recorder and record yourself for half of the day, then play it back and listen to yourself. Take a look at yourself in the mirror, do you love what you see??? These are all the things maybe your boyfriend Friends are looking at? Maybe you need a change, or find out why by asking your boyfriends friends why they hate you..
2007-03-09 01:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Hummbaba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of path not. I even have been interior an identical sitituation for over 10 years! and that i'm not with him now. i admire him greater advantageous than the different guy that I even have been with.it somewhat is to not late to be freinds back in case you the two can purely be acquaintances until you prefer to waste a large form of a few time on b.s. And purely undergo in concepts you broke up for a reason purely undergo in concepts that.
2016-10-17 23:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all guys are just like that and if you would like to get along ith them I suggest that you play around with them and share like a little joke once in a while or laugh at theirs!! If you keep this up then you;ll become the hilarious girlfriend of ther friend!!
2007-03-09 01:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you doing that makes them hate you so much? If nothing then there is nothing you can do. All you can do is be true to your boyfriend, and prove them wrong. Otherwise, just be friendly when you have to be around his friends.
2007-03-09 01:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be nice to them. That's the best you can do. They will probably still think that way about you, but your boyfriend will still like you, even if his friends don't.
2007-03-09 01:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a difficult question. if i listen to my romantic side then i tell you: "don't wrorry anout it hon, love concures it all..." but if i listen to the realist in me then i would say this:
-try to think about how you acted with them and what the reason for their haterd is
-if you realise that yu cannot think of anything, go on and ask them
-if you cannot do anything to change the situation,then you need to think about wheter you can continue the relationship with your bf (sometimes you will have to meet his friends, you cannot avoid that) or end the relationship.
this will not be easy, but i wish you all the very best
2007-03-09 01:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by VeronicaB 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk 2 him about it.
also just like in or in cosmogirl with mandy moore on the cover it had a whole page on how to get his friends to like you.
give them a chance and be nice to them. its ok! o and it is normal to think about what ur bf's bffs think cause they can always do something to make him do somethin (peer pressure)
good luck. dont let it affect any thing with ur guy though
2007-03-09 01:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by .. .. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...first of all, I think it is very wise of you to want to smooth things over with his friends. A good way might be to simply agree with them on some small points. Smile, be nice. Thank them for small things. People just like to be appreciated and most guys like to be appreciated by cute girls and if you do it in a polite way, not flirting, they will eat it up.
2007-03-09 01:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋