I really like this girl, but i dont know if she likes me back.
she owns a shop, i walked past it. she started to smile at me. we smiled for about 2 weeks before i got the courage to finally walk in. i asked her for a coffee, she said she would but works 7 days a week, but to come back in and visit her again. I had to leave my job. gave her my number. she never called me. but asked me if i have brothers or sisters. whats my nationality. girls dont ask me these questions. i called her wished her happy new years. she said thats sweet and talk to you soon. i am back at the same area. walked past and she smiled at me. Do you people think she likes me from what i said?? I am thinking to much, i really like her. But i dont want to get burnt again! Helpppppppppppppp!!!!
2007-03-09 01:40:54 · 6 answers · asked by Its in the air tonight!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go back in there and say something cute and cool like:
"Hey, I like you. I don't what it is, but there is something about you that I really like. And you got me curious.
Since you work during the day 7 days a week, that rules out the coffee break. But what about dinner? At "this" place and at "this" time? Sound good to you?"
If she says no, then tell her to suggest a time that's good for her and you'll be there. Tell her you won't take no for an answer. Not in a stalkerish way, but a cute, I really like you and wanna get to know you better, kinda way!
Hope all goes well! ♥
2007-03-09 01:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may like you as a friend but I think you're reading into this too much. Why? The same thing happened to me with this cute girl who works at a cell phone sales kiosk in our Costco store here. We hit it off really well and talked about a lot of things as she had time and I really started liking her more then just the attraction to her good looks. It was her personality. I asked her about it and well she told me not to read into it too much. Meaning she was probably seeing some one else and such and that she values me more as a friend and nothing more. I was ok with that. She's now married and I wish her and her husband the best. And one day we will have that golf date LOL. So the same thing might be happening in your case there buddy. Just give it time and put your best foot forward with her. If she likes you as more then a potential friend time will tell and she'll open up more hopefully. Ask her out again only this time carefully do not take no for an answer. Make her want to go out with you and be subtle about it. Chivalry never hurts with the ladies in fact some women crave chivalry.
2007-03-09 09:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you are telling me she does not seem interested in that way. You made the first move by talking to her. When a girl is interested, she will take you up on the offer, talk to you and want to talk to you, even about nothing.
You probably have a crush on her, but i would suggest move on now and stop thinking about her by focusing on other things.
2007-03-09 17:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you do tno want to get burnt - then do not go!!!
i think she is worth trying to meet her!
Good luck!
2007-03-09 09:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by helga 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say your probly reaching. Try this, bring coffee to her and see what happens. Good luck.
2007-03-09 09:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by mrskittycat76 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she was into you, it wouldn't be this hard.
2007-03-09 09:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Gudge 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋