ok i was going out with this guy and i always wanted to kiss him, but my mom wont let me kiss any boys but all the other girls do and they allways ask so did you kiss him yet
rebecca robey
2007-03-09 01:14:07 · 31 answers · asked by Rebecca R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best thing to do should be not to lie to your mum, but to lie to your friends. Just tell them you have kissed him. Its more important to keep and respect a relationship of a mother than of friends. so just make her proud of you and if its so important for your friends, then let them know that you have kissed him.
2007-03-09 01:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by its m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rebecca:
Good Luck! It is hard to go through all of these things, doing what your mom wants you to do cause she thinks it is best for you, and trying to find your own way in the world.
You sound like a good kid.
The best thing you can do is figure out what is best for yourself, not becuase your friends what you to do something or because your mom said no, but how do you feel about it based on the way you were raised. Do what your heart feels is right, and you cant go wrong.
There will always be the next thing that everyone else is doing, you cant make your decisions based on them. You have to decide for yourself if the time is right, or if this particular thing is the right thing to do at the time.
If you have a good relationship with your mom, you can tell her what you dicided and why. If you act like a responsible person, I hope your mom will treat you as such. As for your friends, true friends will stand by you weather you go along with what they think is right or not.
2007-03-09 09:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by dcrobinson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont worry about what anyones doing but yourself. Just because everyone does it doesnt mean its okay for you to. Next time they ask just say you're waiting for the right moment and you dont wanna rush into anything! But your mom is right...you should take things very slow the way guys are so perverted these days! She prob doesnt want it leading to anything more than that and it usually does! So...you just be yourself and do things at your own pace! You're not here to please anyone but yourself! As long as your happy thats all that counts! Its your life, live it how you want and dont let anybody try to change you or make you feel like you're not right or with the "in" crowd. Anybody that cant accept your decisions and your wished than you dont need them in your life! Your true friends will always stick by you no matter what, and they wont make you feel dumb or stupid or like you aint right! Good luck.... learn from your experiences but live with no regrets!
2007-03-09 09:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's none of your girlfriends business who you kiss or if and when you choose you to kiss them. Just smile secretly and say " a true lady or gentleman never kisses and tells," or 'wouldn't you like to know??" Your mom is wise to discourage you from kissing a bunch of silly little boys. You'll know when the time is right to exchange a sweet kiss and you won't ask mom's permission to do so. Just keep it at an innocent , sweet kiss, and you won't have anything to regret...ever.
2007-03-09 09:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing isn't really an issue but your mum is worried that you are growing up and that kissing may progress to other acts. so by all means kiss but stop it there. Don't do it infront of your parents as they wont appreciate it, and you dont have to have 20min snog sessions.
As far as john's question goes I agree i won't be upset by my daughter kissing, but dads have a harder time dealing with their daughters liking of men as surely you know what guys are after so do not suggest that you will not be worried about your daughter as it is unlikely you will just like the unwashed miscreants your daughter will bring home!!!!!!!
2007-03-09 09:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by shortarsetitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mother's just trying to protect you from an underwhelming experience, that you'll cringe back on in 10 years. give the woman a break.
you sound young and impressionable, which is a wonderful time in life. enjoy it, and take comfort in your parents protection. they're trying to keep you happy and keep your life uncomplicated. there will be plenty of time when you get older to kiss guys. don't let your friends pressure you into anything. it's obvious they're not looking out for your best interests, and it seems they really need some direction in their own lives.
2007-03-09 09:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your age. if ur barely into ur teens, then i agree with ur mom. "but all the other girls do" is not an excuse. if all the other girls were killing people, would u do the same thing? just because all the other girls are doing it doesnt mean that u should join in them. i know that i probably sound like ur mom, but truthfully, you will thank her for what she is helping you with. dont take it as a bad thing because your being disciplined, its because she doesnt want you to grow up too fast. believe me, my mom and dad are the same way and im 16. my friends parents are the same way and shes 18.
2007-03-09 09:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by jenrulz13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u and ur bf with ur mom 24/7? probably not..think bout it.. act like u gonna talk out the trash and tak him with u and then kiss or if yall go to the same school then kiss him already. u mom isnt always in ur face..i hope
2007-03-09 09:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by boricuaspot21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, your Mom should not ask you that. I don't mean to be disrespect full to your mom. Kiss all you want, no harm in it. That's how a good relationship get started Good luck
2007-03-09 09:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him, but don't let your mom find out, go somewhere secluded (not near anyone) and then you can kiss him without worrying about anyone telling your mom.
2007-03-09 09:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by hotchik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋