got to know this guy about a year ago through the inet. At that time I was not happy at all in my relationship for many different reasons.
He was also dating a girl, his girlfriend now, then.
He called me two to three times a day for about 2,5 months.
We were on the phone for sometimes 4 hours and also had phone sex.
I suggested a date but he refused because now it was serious between him and his grilfriend, they were only dating before.
So I told him we should not have any contact anymore because I couldnt feel it leading both of us anywhere. He agreed.
So for almost four months we didnt hear anything of the other.
We got back in touch a few months ago and we talk about how glad we are both that we didnt betray our partners.
My relationship with my bf is now over which I told him and
I know that he is not happy in his relationship too. I try not to call him and he calls about every two weeks.
I have fallen in love with him over this time and dont really know what to do
2007-03-09 00:04:12 · 11 answers · asked by mariella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to get out there and find someone. Theres no need to get all upset about someone you honestly dont know. If he has a girlfriend youre just the one on the side waiting for him to come to you.. not to be pessimisstic but its most likely not gonna happen. Move on, theres plenty of people out there that you could end up with. Dont sweat over some guy you probably are too good for anyways
2007-03-09 00:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by begging4love123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not to try it? You are free and have fallen in love with him, he is not happy with his girlfriend and for sure you mean much for him (if he continues to call you getting no calls from you). Don't keep in your feelings, feel like calling - just call. Maybe it is better not say directly that you love him but make him feel it. Take the chance now not to regret about it when it is too late. Everything will be good! Good luck.
2007-03-09 00:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by sslloonniikk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 10:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break this to you but he isn't interested. If he can't see you for what you really are then he's not worth the hassle. I recommend that you forget about him and tell him you are no longer intersted. I know it's going to be hard but it'll be ok. Try to go out and meet new people, afterall you never met him did you? There are plenty more fish in the sea. Good luck
2007-03-09 00:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by me m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not happy in his relationship maybe you should just be there for him as a friend, and then he'll realise how happy he is to have you in his life again and hopfefully he'll feel the same way as you - but you definitely need to be there for him as a friend... and eventually it will turn into more if its meant to be... don't freak him out by telling you're in love with him -especially while he has a girlfriend....
2007-03-09 00:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by hey mickey you're so fine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him directly if he intends to break up with his gf. Until he does, I do not suggest contacting him and if he calls you keep it real short so he gets your drift. There is no point going through the same thing again if he does not intend to leave his gf.
2007-03-09 00:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are f u c k i n g stupid and don't know what love is. How can you say you fell in love with someone on-line when you haven't spend any time with him. For all you know he would be a serial killer.
2007-03-09 00:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
better watch him sister, he looking for someone to sneak around with, if he does it to "her", he's gonna do it to you, and if you come between him and her, remember~the same is gonna happen to you.
2007-03-09 01:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but till he gets rid of the GF you cant do anything... its wrong and you know that
2007-03-09 00:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone, if he did all that to his g/f behind her back, when he gets with you he WILL do the same
2007-03-09 00:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋