I'm a bigger girl but very beautiful I'm told. But when me and my man of two years have sex theres no foreplay. He dont really caress or touch me anywhere but downstairs. Does it have something to do with me being a little heavier. He said that he loved me and hes happy with me. But sometimes I just dont feel it. Please tell me what you think.
2007-03-08 21:47:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But he's sweet kind and my love
2007-03-09 23:59:59 · update #1
It has nothing to do with your weight, but rather something to do with the fact that you have not yet taught him how to pleasure you. It's all very well for him to be very happy, but you need to speak up and tell him what it will take to make you happy in the bedroom too.
2007-03-08 21:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No baby, I am a big girl too but when I am in bed with a man there's plenty of foreplay. Maybe you should try telling him that you want a little more? But not when you are in bed, best to talk about that before or after sex. Good luck!
2007-03-09 05:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know whats wrong with your man but I love foreplay. I could play around for hours and I hope this dont bother you but since your a big girl there is more to play around with not just that one little spot
2007-03-09 06:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by guitarking1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its got anything to do with you being 'heavier'. Just a lack of communication. You should tell him what you want...he probably doesn't know! He obviously loves you or you wouldn't have stayed together for 2 years. Just talk to him and don't feel embarrassed...its been 2 years...he must know everything about you by now!
2007-03-09 05:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its because of your size i think its coz your man is lazy! Your letting him get away with doing things how he does so he thinks this is fine. Dont give into him, tell him hes not getting any until he makes you feel good in other ways and by touching other parts of your body. Trust me once you play a little harder to get he'll soon buck his ideas up!
2007-03-09 05:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know what? I'm about 105 pounds and the downstairs area is where my BF spends most of his time at. That's all they really want. At least something about you turns him on.
2007-03-09 05:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by meganzopf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could say that he loves only sex. for that he used u thats all. But personally he like only slim girl. but he didn't get opportunity to have sex with slim one if he get surely he will leave u.
2007-03-09 05:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men just have no idea what they are doin, dont think its anything to do with yourself please.
and possibly u should talk to ur man, and express your feelings to him, maybe he is unaware that you feel this way and need xtra attention paid to other areas in foreplay
2007-03-09 05:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, some guys just dont have much of a clue in the bedroom
2007-03-09 05:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by ilovecokeacole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is just a selfish bast#$red. size dosen't mean anything with this. tell him what you want, and if you don't get what you want, then don't let him get what he wants.
2007-03-09 06:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋