ok, so I want to know what you think...I'm really good friends with this guy, and he comes over my house all the time and everything...one night he came over and he was over from like 10-4am and he layed his head on my lap and tickled my upper inner leg and my side, and he would wrap his arms around me and stuff...at like 4 in the morning my mom woke up tog et ready for work, so before he left he gave me a hug..which isnt any different than normal besides he's the one that like initiated the hug, and i'm the one that usually does...ok, so for like a week after that he started avoiding me and all this...and he was skipping on of his classes, and i was in study hall in the cafeteria and he came in so skip, he started talking to me for just a little btit. He sat at the same table,a nd we have soem of the same friends...we used to talk on the phone every night or almost every night and now he doesnt pick up the phone.some of my friends think he likes me and just doesnt no how to express it
2007-03-08 07:39:56 · 12 answers · asked by ~_Kadi_~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and the other day one of my friends asked one of his friends if he liked me..without saying i liked hima nd he said no...and if he told anyone who he liked, it would be the friend i asked....so i dont know what to think now... does he like me? what do you think?
2007-03-08 07:41:30 · update #1
and we couldnt have really done anything because my 11 year old cousin was in the room sleeping
2007-03-09 13:52:24 · update #2
Your gonna have to talk to him about it.
2007-03-08 07:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by SHELLBELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that this is so confusing! He is mixed up and doesn't know what he really thinks. Maybe he was trying you out that night to see how far things could go!! Teenage guys are turned-on all the time whether they want to be or not. Survival of the Fittest and the human need to reproduce is strong and so are his hormones.
Why don't you give up on him. He is too unpredictable and it will keep you confused. There are lots of other guys. Find one you like that likes you back without all the confusion and going through friends for information. This just sounds like a dry hole to me. I would want a guy that could come right out and be there with me. You deserve that too.
2007-03-08 15:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was disappointed because he didn't get anywhere with you the other night. It's possible that he was hoping to go further than just a hug and it upset him. Regardless of what it is you shouldn't blame urself for how he's acting right now.
2007-03-08 15:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by *VS* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something like this actually happened to me and my absolutely best friend. He was one year older than me and my neighbor from the time that I was two. We stopped hanging out for like two years when he was 14and I was 13 and then we started to be friends again. Then one night, something wicked similar to what you said happened... and then he stopped talking to me for like two weeks and avoiding me and everything. He eventually said that it was because he was scared of hurting me and losing me as a friend. He felt like he was falling in love with me, and he was scared. I was 15 when that happened... and I'm 18 now and we're still going out and very in love.. :-) Make him talk to you!
2007-03-16 13:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WARNING: THIS IS A 12 YR OLD!
it depends wat kind of person he is. if he does that 2 every1 that it is nothing 2 worry about and that is just his way of telling u that u r his friend. if he is only doing that 2 then it is a possibility that he likes u, but he does not kno how 2 tell u or he does not kno that he likes u. u should ask him straight up ur self and see his reaction. if he reacts like he is trying 2 hide it, he likes u.
3 stages of likeing some1
1. rejection
2. frustration/anger
3.acceptance
2007-03-08 15:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by puffypurplepet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just ask him? maybe he just wants to be friends, but he knows that because of the night he stayed at your house, you are going to try to make more out of it. go and talk to him instead of listening to second hand info. that some one else gets for you.
2007-03-08 15:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by froggz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are lames sweetheart...being one myself, I KNOW!!! he pulled the good ole' "MR RITE", "PRINCE CHARMING", he says all the rite bull at just the rite time and does all the rite things to make you REALLY REALLY LIKE HIM, or as we call it in the hood, get you "SPRUNG"...DONT fall for this trick, that's all it is. only instead of a rabbit coming out of a hat it's meant to get you out of your pants!!! :0...he's a lame, you'll meet many more just like him. cheer up sweetie. MOVE ON, TRUST ME!...i dont know if you gave it up to him or not b4 he started ignoring you but...guys WILL ignore you when they have either got what they wanted already orrr...dont feel like they are going to get ehat they want in the end. sry beautiful.
2007-03-08 15:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by jh_spitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably does but then again i don't know guys are confusing but by the way it sounds..that night he may just wanted to get some (i mean i don't know) but when he realized he wasn't getting it he got mad and gave up...that's just the way it sounds to me
2007-03-08 15:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure he likes ya....tell him to come over one night and ask him to express his feelings about you...ask him more if you need to...
2007-03-15 21:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by aaron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that he like u
2007-03-08 15:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋