She showed us her result when she came back from the clinic. She did'nt say anything i want her to trust me
2007-03-02 00:07:04 · 6 answers · asked by Hlengs 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Try not to put too much pressure on her. Be there for her. She has to go through the grieving process. First is denial, then anger. She is hurt b/c she probably feels like she did this to herself, so she wants to deal with it herself. Just keep being there for her and when she is ready she will, b/c she will need you. And on that remember that you can be more harm to her then she can you. Her mental state is very unstable.
2007-03-02 03:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Its very important that you give her enough time to come to you herself. You dont want to appear too pushy. If she shoowed you her results then that was an oppening. If she did not, she is probably in post testing shock. You need to let her know that you are all there for her butat the same time give her some space. Disclosure is a very hard thing to go through and its never that easy. She will need some professional counselling before she can o it.
I have helped a lot of people disclose their status but its never that easy.
2007-03-02 16:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by emanzit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably feeling really bad and ashamed. But, she is also still i na state of shock and denial. HEr whole life has changed becaause of one action. Now, she has to plan her life based around a terminally ill disease. You love her alot and Ican tell because you're asking this question. But, all you can do is just treat like normal until she comes around and starts being more open. In the mean time, study up on HIV. Volunteer at any AIDS Services Foundation. And when she's ready, offer to go to support groups with her. She will come around when SHE'S ready to accept it.
2007-03-02 11:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by nicoleblingy2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she would be negative, she would have told you in relief. She is ashamed of her result because of something...she doesnt want you to put her apart. I do believe she is afraid because her result was positive, but it is just a prejudice, so find out the truth from herself. Only pay attention to her toothbrush, razor or whatever can be in contact with her blood.
2007-03-02 08:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her result was `posative? that has`to be the hardest thing ever. cry with her. be as vsupportive as possible. tell her you will always be her sister and u love her. u want to help her. all she can do now is help herswlf feel better and help educate america onhow common this epademic really is. that it can happen to u. hold her. hug her kiss her. tell her she is loved. it bwill b ok and u need her.
2007-03-02 12:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply say that that its important to you to trust her ,she might need alittle time good luck
2007-03-02 08:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by chris c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋