i am having trouble understanding why seems like younger people don't have any trouble asking 'how do i tell if she's a virgin' or 'how do i know if he likes me'
questions on here, but will not ask those that have THE answer.
have we become a society that can not communicate?
SO ANYWAY, MY QUESTION IS WHY IS IT SO HARD FOR PEOPLE TO JUST ASK ? ANY INPUT TO MY QUESTION WOULD CERTAINLY BE APPRECIATED....
2007-02-24 23:46:50 · 16 answers · asked by lil' angel 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People that ask questions like that have confidence issues and cant talk to the person in question directly so its essayer to ask a total stranger on the Internet.
I've had this problem with my wife she wont have a deep conversation with me.
take the open ended question "what is true love?" for example someone that asks that question has never had there heart broken by someone they truly loved so nested of letting someone get that emotionally close the can just ask this question and get a strong or shallow answer from some jack-*** on the Internet.
People are just scared of having real life experiences and find out the hard way the answer to their question.
2007-02-25 00:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by love less 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think because most people are afraid of the answer that they may get. For instance the one about "how can you tell if she is a virgin" If you came right out and asked and the answer came back as a no then there would be disappointment.
People that ask this question are very insecure in themselves. having or lacking sexual experience is not an indicator of the girl's goodness factor. Personally I have never asked any of my dates if she was a virgin or not because there are more important things to know about her. The most important thing you should know about your companion (girl or guy) is if they are trustworthy to you while you are together. And that is truly a sign of a good relationship.
2007-02-25 07:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not so much the inability to communicate , but the younger ones on here seem to be lacking parental guidance , common sense , discipline, and the basics of a traditional education , I swear sometimes I wonder why we do not see more of the "short yellow buses " going up & down the roads..because the old rule number one is don't talk to strangers , and do not listen to strangers who try to tell you what to do .. (( exception being school teachers , child care workers etc. )) it seems we have become a more naive society ....just my answer and basic opinion
2007-02-25 07:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Insensitively Honest 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are afraid. They fear rejection, or to be teased, laughed at. I agree, we should all be direct and ask specific questions to those that do have the answer. Young people are so caught up with image and how they'll be perceived. You learn as you get older that if your intentions are genuine, you'll get honest answers from those you ask. Sure, sometimes people won't reveal the truth for whatever reasons, but asking direct questions gets easier as you mature.
2007-02-25 08:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Nose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wanna know why? coz it feels awckward if someone ask you a question like this not many people like to be ask personal questions it just make them feel embarassed. well there are others who rally dont mind at all
2007-02-25 07:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by hikari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good insight... but on here you have nothing to lose... but to ask someone you are already trying to impress such a thing is to risk to much but once it is done you realize it was necessary and no big deal and a chance to be closer anyway but that is a hard leap to take you know that
2007-02-25 07:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by cuddlefcuk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause they may be afraid of the answer - if you're not ready to ask then you're not ready to hear the answer -
good bad or indifferent....
So it's just easier to speculate as to what that answer may be.
2007-02-25 07:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by Geanna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
that we realize even political leaders are willing to lie in case this goes with their ambitions and fulfill their needs
so simply Pole started just looking for those who has got no interest
so they would not lie
i suppose that's rational
2007-02-25 07:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it`s just that some people are too shy to ask or scared they might get an answer they don`t want to hear.
2007-02-25 07:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't want to get a violation e-mail from the Yahoo Nazis.
2007-02-25 07:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋