Dont trust him please help girls and guys?
My boyfriend is a huge flirt. He is the type of guy who does hockey and socer. I dont really trust him. Well there was a dance last night and he went without me while I stayed home with my exboyfriend Paul. My friend dean said he would keep an eye out on Matt top maek sure he was not doing anything wrong Matt. Well I have not talken to Dean yet but Matt had come over after the dance because he is always at me house. I asked him if he did anything with any girl and he said no. I was talking to my friend victoria and she said she would not trust matt either. matt lookd like an abrecrombie model. I dont know what to do I want to trust him but I just dont. All my friends say they would not trust him either. The guy is gorgous he is like a 10 out of 10. I am calling Dean today befoere I go to Matts grandparents house. I dont know what to do about Matt and not trusting him. Please help me. Iwant to be a good girlfriend and trust her beau but it is so hard for me rot trust him. Thanks.
2007-02-24 23:14:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I trust him to a certain point. I am just scared he did soemthing at the dance he sis not telling me about.
2007-02-24 23:22:15 · update #1
I kept an eye on him. it seems like he was a good boy. I couldnt see him all night but the few times I saw him he wasnt doing anything bad
2007-02-24 23:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for starters there is a problem with you hanging out with your ex b/f that night so it kinda puts you in a precarious position to ask about not trusting some one as maby he feels the same way about you.one thing for sure is that without trust this relationship will never work and from everything you have written here sounds like it is only a matter of "when' before it is over.good luck
2007-02-24 23:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend hasnt actually done anything to make you distrustful then you need to address your own issues of inadequacy and low self esteem, being possesive, suspicious and jealous will only drive him away, there by you engineer a self fulfilling prophecy that he cant be trusted
2007-02-24 23:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really can't trust him the break up with him & find someone that you can trust.
2007-02-24 23:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by MaeSalgo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stayed home with your Ex boy friend Paul??!!
Who should be worried now?
2007-02-24 23:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by ndcowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not trust him or do not think you ever would trust him....why do you still call him your boyfriend.....
2007-02-24 23:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Insensitively Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't trust him-welcome to the real world
2007-02-24 23:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by ekim2211 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry. give him the benefit of the doubt
2007-02-24 23:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by YinxSphinxmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your friends, they probably have an un-biased opinion plus they will want you to be happy
2007-02-24 23:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋