2007-02-24 23:07:02 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your wife has cheated on you,do yourself a favour and dump her. Forget the lovey - dovey thing, they will do it again.
I took my wife back after she had an affair and she said she lost respect for me for doing it !.
Get rid, you don't want soiled goods do you?.
2007-02-24 23:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by charterman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What you are in right now is simply being hurt. But above all else it is your pride as a man which tends you to do the same. Get a revenge by doing the same yes why not? But it will just make the matter worse, try not simply budding the nip, go to the roots, confront her and ask her directly, this matter is between the two of you not other people. If you felt you had short comings and you still love her and she also feels the same second chance wouldn't hurt. It's a cliche but everyone deserve a next time then maybe you can still work things out. It will never be that easy, coz doubts is just hanging around but rebuild your trust, love and most of all your respect for one another. Who knows? Love is lovelier the seconf time around. Who doesn't want to have a simple happy family? But if she does it the second time there is really something wrong and better seek legal action. Coz everyone deserves a happy, decent and peaceful life with someone who truly love us regardless of our strengths and weaknesses.
2007-02-24 23:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by tequilaalloy_15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me old fashioned but 2 wrongs most definitely DO NOT make a right my friend. Stop and step back away from yourself and look - really look at your life. Not saying that you are to blame - it is just that if you do this you can get a better idea of how to handle this. Right now I am sure you are hurt and angry - who wouldn't be? ask her why she did it - ask yourself if this is something that you can forgive eventually - if you cant get past this it will make your marriage unbearable for both of you. Life is far too short to live unbearable.
You have a long road ahead of you. It is up to both of you to decide if you want to work it out. Cheating is the number 1 cause of breakups.
I feel for you my friend - I know that has to hurt like hell. stay strong and don't do anything stupid that you might regret down the road.
2007-02-24 23:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by bufalo1501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband treats me like dirt and there are many times i have felt like cheating on him.You have too sit down with your wife and find out the reasons why she felt the need to cheat on you. If you love her and you think your marriage is worth saving, then you have to try to find out what went wrong,IE.... was you ignoring her,was you not making love to her, ect ect.There are so many reasons why women cheat on there husbands in a relationship,please dont tie us all with the same rope,but too resolve this issue,you must find out the reason why,she cheated on you in the first place. And No it is not a good idea at the moment to cheat on her. I just wish i had the courage to leave my husband i really do :'(
2007-02-26 21:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by cinders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cheat then your just as bad as her. You may think that it's ok because she did it to you and you want her to feel the same thing that you felt when you found out. Don't cheat on he, you'll end up feeling guilty and just because she cheated first doesn't mean that it's a good excuse. Just think about it first before it's too late and your conscience kicks in.
2007-02-24 23:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by xo-Stacey-ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The moment your thinking about cheating. It seems your already cheating. How do you know that everybody is doing it. dont you like to save your relationship as a happy couple and think about your kids if you have one. Look for the root of the problem and try to solve it.
2007-02-24 23:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Corinthian1 vs 4-8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't think you should cheat on her because then that would just make you as bad as her and two wrongs do not make a right.
I understand that you must be upset and angry right now but try to be the bigger person here and either try to work it out with her or move on and find someone else who wont cheat on you.
Good luck babe xxx
2007-02-25 02:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know your personality, but if my man cheated on me, and I found out, then I will not bare being in the same room with him for one 1, either me or him leaves the house. I think I would through him out the house, coz thats what he deserves, even if I really loved him, but if one think i cant handle, is the one I love with someone else. He'll just prove to me how bad he really is, and aint worth a tear
2007-02-24 23:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do then you are even worse than she is point scorin will not make you feel better that your wife strayed you need to talk this through and find out if its worth tryin again maybe try marrage councilin if you love each other you will be able to sort this out but i think you need to seriosly re asses your true feelins as if you want to cheat just because she did then maybe you dont have much of a future together
2007-02-24 23:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by theoriginalbitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Do not cheat on your wife. Find out why she cheated and seek counseling for it. Find out the truth, and find out why she strayed and see if you can rebuild your life with her. Be honest and if there still is love on both of your sides, then, work hard to save it. If she still wants to have affairs, then, cut your losses and move on without her in your life. Take care.
2007-02-24 23:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋