Can the true love torelate everything including cheating?

Question

Someone believe the true love can conquer every obstacle. So the weired obstacle like when your girlfriend/boyfriend wants to have another affair but she/he still wants you, do you have to let her/him do what she/he wants? He/she also assures that "you will still be the number one for me!" Is the reason that "if you love me, u must accept everything I do and always be there for me. Then u r the great girlfriend/boyfriend for me and you deserve to be with me." always valid? Or that jerk psycho one is already out of her/his mind?

Answer 1

The jerk/psycho is out of his mind. A man who talks about other women or suggests being with other women while being involved with you is a weirdo. I was involved with someone like this once.
They turn the mind games onto you and make you feel like you are the problem. Not true. They are the one with the insecurity issues, and they play it off as you being the one that is not fufilling their needs. Another woman in the picture is just an excuse they give so that they can get off. A person who uses this tactic to control you really is not a man at all. Just somebody that you need to avoid altogether. If someone like this crosses your path, run fast. They will get theirs eventually. They will either hook up with another kook, or better yet, live a life of being alone.
Trust me, Karma has a way of taking care of people like this.

Answer 2

Send him his walking papers. I've heard it said recently, in Y Answers no less, that you can't be a doormat unless you just lay there.

If he wants an "open relationship", give him one bc clearly, instead of 1+1=2, he wants 1+1=1+1+1+1+whoever looks cute to him that day. YOU do the math.


(Walk completely away).

If fidelity means or even represents ANYthing to you, then there is no greater love or respect than to have this value honored, valued, upheld, and respected by your partner.

Yeah, you'll be his #1,,,of the moment, until he turns the corner and finds a new #1 of the moment before he makes his way back to you....

"Being there" for him has nothing to do with allowing him to use you, make a fool of you, dictate to you terms and conditions that go agianst your grain, your nature, your expectations, your values.

Indeed, if you fall for this, then he's made you betray yourself. Even YOU'VE betrayed yourself. You know this. The answer to your question is embedded deep in your soul or you wouldn't be troubled enough to ask this question, much less show your confusion in how you pose it.

That "great bf/gf" line is just that, a line, and a coercive line at that.

That "you deserve to be with me" sh*t, is just that, sh*t. Trying to get you worked up, confused, and willing to fall for anything...as long as it works for HIM,

He's obviously not concerned about YOU or YOUR concerns, your needs, your values--or he wouldn't do it, wouldn't ask you, wouldn't pressure you, wouldn't threaten to leave you.

There are some couples who find nothing wrong with "sharing", and it's not at all wrong--as long as both are willingly on board.

You're not.

So, again, honey, YOU do the math. Does 1+1=2 to you or not? If so, tell him "I wish you well babe". Further, tell him in no uncertain terms that your relationship with him currently totals up in your book to a big fat ZERO, OR it totals up to 0+1=1, OR it totals up to 0+1=1+1+1+1+ad nauseum.

From this point forward walk, or run, away; far, far away. This guy no longer deserves any facade or pretense of your trust or respect. Don't even fall for him telling you that he'll stick to just you.

The fact that he would try to coerce you psychologically or emotionally speaks volumes and makes the guy a sociopath, not a psycho. There's a biiiiig difference. (Check a couple of dictionaries, including those intended for psychologists, therapists, counselors, etc. They'll explain it all to you.)

Now, just what do YOU need a relationship to total up to? Go find it.

Answer 3

No way. Cheating does not happen in true love, and anyone who would ask you to accept cheating in a relationship does not love you. You do not have true love if there is premeditated cheating being discussed.

Jerk psycho out of their mind.

Answer 4

Nope....never....true love can never accept cheating, since it grows expectations in you, and cheating is far from your expectations from him. this is always UNTOLERABLE! if he cheats, or builds afairs with others, then no chance he has ever ever loved you for a second even. he only meant an afair with ya, likewise with others. but it is only your inocence now that he is playing with and asking to wait for him, no matter whatever he might do, he will always love ya. true love shuts the door of heart forever for others, untill your partner is with ya, and even after her. now look at you, can you have afaires with other guys while you are so inlove with him? can your feelings for him, your heart allow you?

Answer 5

Its actual and it does take place there are people who've cheated that the only they cheated with had hidden reasons and had to harm them undesirable. After my fiance cheated sure I went and cheated on him something fierce. at first i had to reason some vast harm to him and to his organization and could not on the final 2d. as quickly as I advised him I have been given what i wanted i replace into waiting to tell the reality on the subject of the area. yet he stored pushing and not believing what i replace into telling him so I advised him what would harm him badly, in my opinion and professionally. whilst he finally believed what i replace into telling him after he made an entire jerk out of himself. I felt undesirable approximately telling him the lie than the reality. sure not in basic terms replace into I coronary heart broken approximately this extra advantageous than he replace into (of direction) I felt ashamed of myself desirous to smash his entire existence than in basic terms his own existence.

Answer 6

Question makes no sense. How can cheating exist in a world of "true love". they both cannot co-exist with each other
IT'S EASY TO BELIEVE YOU'VE FOUND TRUE LOVE...

Answer 7

Unless I were capable of giving unconditional love to a mate, boyfriend, spouse, partner, whatever, which I am not . . not yet, anyway, while in my present path - I'd say, "you want your cake and eat it, too, is more likely what you're asking, so go get your cake and eat it too, BUT I, am not providing it Chump!"

Answer 8

No!!! Love may be unconditional, but relationships aren't.

Answer 9

No