Well my best friend likes this guy and they both liked each other until she asked him if they would like to catch a movie, but the next day i found out that guy smsed his friend who is also my friend saying my best friend is weird and he is going to reject her, and i don't think my best friend knows how should i tell her????If i do she'll be heartbroken and i don't want that to happen.
2007-02-24 21:07:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok some of you are confused so heres it simplified so my best friend Diana likes this guy so one day she asked him out but then he told my other friend he thought Diana was weird and is going to reject her offer and i don't think she knows it how should i tell her???
2007-02-24 22:10:17 · update #1
u should tell her. Friendships survive on hornesty & trust. Its for her own good. She will be hurt but let her know u'll always be there for her :) This guy aint worth it. She'll meet someone a million times better!
2007-02-24 21:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by Shobha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell her. You do not have any firsthand info from you friend's crush. If you say something based on 2nd hand info, you may be wrong, and she will be hurt by the fact that you would "lie" to her. The crush may be 2nd guessing himself and may change his mind. All you can do is be there for her. Be happy with her if all goes well, and be sad with her if he is a stinker and rejects her.
Bottom line, do NOT pass along 2nd hand info that may be wrong, and do be there for her regardless of the outcome :)
Hope she gets the happy end of this. Good luck
2007-02-25 05:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by picture . . . perfect 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your place to tell her since you didn't hear it directly from the guy. She may not believe you even if you tell her. This is something she will need to hear directly from him. Your best bet is to just be there for her if he does indeed reject her.
2007-02-25 05:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just warn her that 'someone told you' about that txt. say it might not be true, but keep it in mind. whatever you do, dont make a massive deal about it like 'i have to tell you something, im so sorry, here, lets hug' and all that. just say it when he pops up in conversation.
2007-02-25 05:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by bojanglestothemax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont want you friend to hurt by some guy till her what you found out be up font with her you her friend if you know till you want her to till you now think about
2007-02-25 05:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best just letting her find out her self because if you tell her she might snap at you it sounds harsh i know but all you can do is just be their for support her after if things go wrong
2007-02-25 05:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by glowing flair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll be heartbroken anyway when the guy tells her .... you better warn her.
2007-02-25 05:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is WAY too confusing. Simplify and reask because the he said/she said is too much for my brain.
2007-02-25 05:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by GOUTVOLS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll be even more crushed if and when she finds out that you knew all that b4 she did and didnt tell her!
honesty is the best policy ..... :)
2007-02-25 05:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by Kittykaren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't understand the question, maybe try less lingo.....
2007-02-25 05:10:07 · answer #10 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋