i proposed a guy on this V'day but he said he wasnt prepard 4 any commitment ..and said we can stay good frnds..but then now when i still sms him or ask him to spend time with me,he does so without objection...and doesnt avoid me at all...listens to my tantrums that i miss him and want to be with him..But this wasnt like this b4 V'day...After that day,he has changed a lot in his attitude towards every1,become nicer,friendlier,more compassionate,..is it possible that he is falling in love with me now?.and that now he has started seeing me more than a frnd or is it just that he doesnt want to hurt me...so he is sympathetic and compassionate towards me?
2007-02-24 20:58:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You PROPOSED to a guy who thought you were 'good friends'? Sounds like you jumped the gun a bit there! Anything is possible, but don't get your hopes too high, and let him do the proposing next time!
2007-02-24 21:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by endorable 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has had time to think about it for a few days, or maybe his friends talked him into it. Just accept his well being and respect towards u, and see what happens. Maybe he is liking u more, but give him his space ya know. Dont overcrowd him with all your wants and needs. let him also spend time woth hias friends. Good luck!!
2007-02-25 05:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Bandice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go witht the flow mate... I applaud you for proposing that takes guts. But for now just go with the flow.... cause he is. Enjoy each others company again and see where it takes you cause you never know it might be him next time getting down on one knee.
One can only hope
2007-02-25 05:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u have to go for friendship but only if u r comfortable with it. if nnot do not run for love. He is trying not to hurt u or he is also confused.. So decide for urself whether u can see it or not. u asked him already so don go for it again...let him come down and ask u. not u... Protect urself..take care..
2007-02-25 05:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by ee2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but he's told you straight up he doesn't want to be commited ... just good friends. Admire his honesty and believe him.
2007-03-04 22:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't feel bad for what i say.love should be spontanious.he doesn't sound to be in love,he just trying to have a friendship.otherwise he would have shaken his head blindly for anything you say and fallen head over heels.love doesn't make you think and he thinks.hope you got my message clear.good luck!
2007-03-04 23:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by alec. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋