My man is my bestfriend and love.We are long distance.He asked me to find his bestfriend a gf from my friends.So i did for his friend with my friend.Problem is hes very close to his friend if his friends happy hes happy if hes sad hes sad.I understand being away from home having his best friend as roommate theres a bond.But its effecting our relationship.Even his friends gf my friend was saying my man asks her to answer about her relationship with his friend.His gf finds it odd they are so close.He doesnt call/email/chat/talk to me but does with my friend asking her about her relationship with his friend.His friend calls me to ask me about my relationship with my man.Whats going on?my man loves me,is looking out for his best friend so asking my friend questions about their relationship and his friend vice versa with me.my man and his friend are gay.my man is trying to get girls saying its for his friend(my friend said she never spoke,met my man but his friend only met spoke to her)HELP
2007-02-24 20:43:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please give it another chance dont throw away your family friendship best friends for over 6years with being in love.Tell him how you feel talk communicate then take it from there.Tell him you dont want to be taken for granted,ask him to meet you,meet up midway.After everything said and done.You will get your answer if he meets you midway and you two will be together.
2007-02-26 06:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So there's 4 people involved, your man is gay and he loves you? Doesn't make sense to me, unless you are both bi-sexual, and you didn't mention that. I am not clear what your question is. I understand the situation, but you've got 4 friends in your explanation and you want to know what's going on from us? Ask you b/f what's going on, talk to your g/f. I wouldn't suggest discussing your relationship with either friend right now, until you get this situation cleared up with your b/f.
2007-02-24 20:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by daughter_helping 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's jacked up it sounds like they are playing strange games. But honestly remember being in school and you would do three way calling and get your friend to talk to your crush with you on the line? Same principal here they want to see what you all really say and wonder how much you all really care. Childish yes. True yes
2007-02-24 20:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds confusing to me too! Ask him directly- communicate & you never know what you might find out. Best of luck xoxo
2007-02-24 20:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a-huh- ..ermmm
what are you doing with a gay man ?...
i didnt really understand your question.it confused the hell out of me..maybe next time make it abit less complicated.
2007-02-24 20:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
uuuhhh confront him about it and talk if that don't work then leave him
2007-02-24 20:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he gay
2007-02-24 20:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋