Went out for a while with this girl. Everything was great and we were intimate. We broke up, she came back to me and now I have no idea what we are. She doesn't want to have sex till marriage now. When I ask, she says some b.s. about waiting and all that. How can you wait if you already had sex with this girl? How can I go backwards? I don't know what to do. I do love her, but being intimate is very important to me. I don't know if she is doing this to test me. What do you guys think? How should I react to this? What should I do? Leave her? Or try to win her trust and heart? I am confused.
2007-02-24 20:20:11 · 6 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to find out more. but if ya'll have already been intimate, I don't see the point in now not doing so or being so. maybe the girl is regretting ever doing that with you and just wants to start over, atleast for her own piece of mind. but it's definitely up to do. I am not you of course, but if I was you I would kinda just be there for her atleast now. If she won't try to accomodate your needs or whatnot, then it may be time to move on and find a nice warm and loving relationship with someone else
2007-02-25 00:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by YinxSphinxmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she want to see how much you do love her, as you two have already had sex so i dont see why not again since you two have got back together. You could wait and see what happens after a while and then sit down and have a chat about how you are feeling, a relationship works if both people are happy not just one. I dont think leave her as you love her, just try and get her to trust you again and see what happens. things must be so hard for you at the moment. Let her know what you are feeling right now so she understands what you are going through too.
Good luck
2007-02-25 04:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like this and this only. If a woman says I want to wait till we're (or I'm) married. Then you have a few choices: A. abide her choice and someday marry her. B. realize that wha she wishes is not what you wish and that sex or lack there of can ruin more relaitionships than it makes. Thank her and tell her you respect her wishes, and let her know that your needs are use to some intamacy prior to marriage. Hope that you can find common ground. If not find a girl on your own pace.
2007-02-25 04:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be intimate in otherways than having sex. if the relationship that important to you, you won't pressure her.
2007-02-25 04:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Just_wondering234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her he sweet meat or show her the door. or go elswhere to sow your oats and keep her if ye like her that much
2007-02-25 04:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think she is looking for marraige if u r not looking for marraige that's it
2007-02-25 04:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋