I am in a high school class with a beautiful girl who asks if i like her all the time and i told her i like her but nothing has happened. I may just be dum but she always asks to use my cell and then takes a picture of herself on it or writes "Steven and (her name) are in love" as my greeting and they seem like hints. She is generally kind of lovey like that anyways, not that much though. I am very confused as to what I should do because I would really like to be with her but she has much more experience with relationships than me and I honestly don't know what to say to her. I'm afraid if I take much longer she will stop liking me. How should I ask her out, during class, at lunch, over the phone? What do I say? Please help!
2007-02-24 20:04:19 · 11 answers · asked by Mr.Steven 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It'd be nice to ask her out while she's writing a love message on your cell, but if you feel like you're too shy to ask in person, try over the phone. Once you go out you'll certainly know what to do. Actually it's a good thing that she's experienced, because she's open, she's not shy, she probably knows what she wants and the comunication between you two will be much easier. Good luck and don't worry it will work out by itself! Just enjoy it!
2007-02-24 20:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by baby2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, you do need that communication between you both. You need to stand up, as the male counterpart, and just ask her out on a date. You need to spend time with her, alone, and go check out a movie, or hang out, some place, but she can't read your mind, and she's probably waiting on you to ask her out, somewhere!!
Don't be a wimp and let her make all the decisions. Be a man! Do your part and take the upper hand. Let her know you are serious about her, and ask her if she wants to go check out a movie, sometime. Ask her to go to a friend's party, or go for a walk down the beach, park, or check out some museum, ...or SOMETHING!!
If you're confused, and in doubt, COMMUNICATE with her!! She'll leave you alone, thinking you just didn't like her enough to want to spend any time with her, because you ...never asked her!!
Get her number...tell her you'll call her soon....make plans with her during school, after school, during lunch, whenever the time is right...you'll know the time is right, because she'll be alone, or at her locker, or just leaving, after school!
Don't back out, now, if you're serious about her, though.
2007-02-25 04:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by argamedius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys sound like you like each other just ask her out and quick...just tell her that you think shes a beautiful girl and that you really like her and would love it if she would be your girlfriend... don't be scared because she has more experiences with relationships because it doesn't really matter whatever you don't know you guys will learn together...
2007-02-25 04:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you I would ask her out when you two are on your own and see what she says to you. I'm sure she does like you a lot otherwise she would not be doing the things she does.
She does like you and some girls dont like to ask boys out so its down to you to ask her.
Good luck
2007-02-25 04:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it!! She totally likes you. Ask her for her number call her up and tell her how u feel. 1st remember to write down what to say before you freeze up lol!! but just make sure you tell her soon before she moves on! GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-02-25 04:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by alexus w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you cared about her enough to go on yahoo answers and ask what to do, lol. ask her out in person, harder, but more likely to get a good responce. say she's the most beautiful person you've ever met and you'd be honered to be her boyfriend........
2007-02-25 04:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a genlte man.
i think when you see here and after a class say somthing like : i know this resturant it is good one.....do u want us to have luch there one day .
good luck
2007-02-25 04:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her point blank what she would like you to do. Ask with a smile, not like you're angry or something, just ask her what your next move should be if you were to do what she wanted. Then...do it.
2007-02-25 04:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do some good stuff for her!!! use gallantry! When you are around her, you always syhow off and make sure that she sees it. Do well in ur schoolwork & get a good job. TADA!!!, you suddenly end up with her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-25 04:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by Black Hole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in person ask her out
in the end its mostly rewarding
2007-02-25 04:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by Mane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋