My husband's best friend is cheating on his wife. I am not a close friend of his wife, but do consider her a friend. He is not planning on divorcing his wife. There are children involved as well. I know his wife has no clue. Should I tell her or keep my mouth shut?
2007-02-24 19:26:09 · 12 answers · asked by Lynsey T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She should know, but not from you, I know I'd want to know, wouldn't you? There has to be a way to let her know with out it coming from you. Like a note left on her car, that is typed or can't lead back to you. Stating, something to the effect, that this is someone who knows you, and just wants to inform you that you might want to check your husbands where abouts on such and such dates at such and such times. Or get someone to call that she doesn't know, over a payphone. Stating that. Hope the woman knows soon, there is too many disease's out there now days, and she could get something if he is messing around.
2007-02-24 19:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as horrible as it sounds..keep your mouth shut. A lot of times, the wife already knows, and if she decides to stay with him, it could make things awkward between your husband and his best friend later. It can be a really difficult situation, but it's best to keep it to yourself, or talk to your husband about it first.
2007-02-24 19:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Michele A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mouth shut. Unless you want to end the friendship between your husband and him and quite possibly put a rift in your own marriage.
2007-02-24 19:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough question, but its really not any of your business. although it does make sense to be truthful and morally right. try talking to his wife about what she thinks. does she suspect him cheating? let her figure it out on her own, to the point where she starts cornering her husband and demands answers. it will be better for her to find out on her own. she might be defensive, or she might be open to you, it depends on the person...she might ask you if u know anything...and that would be your best oppurtunity.
2007-02-24 19:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by shayshedae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is better to mind your own business, after all you an outsider. Please not to break others the marriage, no choice, sometime you have to be like that. It really hurt the other wife.
2007-02-24 19:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if hes cheating,she needs to know,especially if theres children involved in this situation do and dont be afraid
2007-02-24 19:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that you don't want to be involve on that problem...but you can tell that to her by using another person or by getting her number then text or call her using another number...it's a sin...a sin of omission...you know something then you will not tell it to her???
2007-02-24 19:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by ...breezy...bluez.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF UR HUSBAND WAS CHEATTING WOULD YOU WANT TO KNOW? MAYBE YOU SHOULD LET HER KNOW ITS THE RIGHT THING TO DO
2007-02-24 19:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by allnightergl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard but keep quiet.
2007-02-24 19:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by raggnaar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her screw that messing up the kids lives the asshole
2007-02-24 19:30:23 · answer #10 · answered by sackman95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋