So my girlfriend of 4 months broke up with me yesterday. She had been seeing this guy (non sexually), over a bottle of vodka. I trusted her, but then she goes to his house without telling me...Then i got suspicious, I wanted to spend time with her today (but she is going with this guy to a concert to try and find tickets). I tell her what is more important seeing this dude or spending time with your bf? She convinces me that she told me about wednesday and invited me to the concert (but I never remember that!!!).
Then I learn that the whole point of the meetings were out of support. I HAD ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA (it was the seven year anniversary of when her brother died, and evidently he had a brother who died too. ) So they had something in common. Now you can imagine how much of a f**k up I am feeling now.
I want her back!! I felt so bad for having to believe she was cheating on me!! I am going to send her flowers. But i need more ideas to win her back!! Plz give me ideas! Thnxs!
2007-02-24 19:18:45 · 15 answers · asked by vincy015 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Support? Vodka?Concert? Don't be stupid .....move on. Face up to the obvious.....I know it's hard to see things from the inside but from out here it's crystal clear.
2007-02-24 19:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by raggnaar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is having an emotional relationship with another man whether it's because she has something in common with him or because he understands her.. the bottom line is she chose to confide in him and not you and that should be the issue you need to address. I think before you try to get her back you should prove to her that she can trust in you like she trusted in him and perhaps work on developing a better friendship with her. As a friend you can deepen the levels of trust so she will be able to confide in you and share with you the memories, fears etc that she is sharing with another person and in time you will be the only person she will ever need and the only shoulder she crys on. I hope it works out for you Good luck
2007-02-24 19:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, being a woman, i know how we act. i really think she is pulling a fast one on you. but, if she has guy freinds that is different. but if she doesn't and this guy just poped out of no where, then you might have a problem. i know you want her back, but think about everything first, write out a pro's and con's list of the relationship, and go with ur gut feeling about if she was really cheating on you or not. if she was then maybe there is a way you guys can work it out, but thats on you guys to figure out.
to get her back regardless of the whole cheating thing, you should ask her to see you one more time. if she excepts, know that this could be your last chance, so do something creative, think of something that you both did early in your relationship, like a great memorie, something you both thought was funny, just something that would get her to remember the good times she had with you. talk to her telll your side of the whole thing, tell her to tell you her side, maybe once you guys know what you were thinking, you will see that it was a misunderstanding and a lack of comunication. tell her what you want your relationship to be like with her, if she does want to go back out with you.
i hope this helps, good luck!!!
2007-02-24 19:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 22:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her how you feel. Tell her that you felt self conscious that shes so beautiful that any guy would want her. Say you feel like your nobody but she is the honey to he beehive. Tell it to her over the phone [ she might now want to see you] like, right after she recieved her flowers. If she doesnt pick up leav e a message because she will be more calm listening to the messsage. Dont give up and wait for her call!
2007-02-24 19:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by LizAsAweS)mE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's ******* him! Make a steel cage and kidnap her and keep her prisoner in your house and never release her! Then you will be able to have her forever and she won't be in control! You will! You could also experiment with her and drug her occasionally and make babies with her and and raise a small army of children and you could keep them upstairs with you and never let her see them as punishment for seeking support from a male and for not baking you cookies and shining your shoes everytime you saw her.
This is how we would deal with her in Saudi Arabia and the Middle-East.
2007-02-24 19:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should call her, and take things slowly. Tell her exactly how you feel, you are truely sorry and you couldn't have known that is why she was seeing him. If that doesn't work, write/type a letter with all of your feelings and send it to her. I hope it works out! :-)
2007-02-24 19:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by c3345 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you posted here. That you're sorry, you made a mistake, along with the flowers. Good luck.
2007-02-24 19:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is an idea, get a clue. I am willing to bet that she did not suck on this guy, but I bet she held it in her mouth until the swelling went down. She so cheated on you, I would try to sleep with her best friend or a sister if she has one, trust me it will make you feel better.
2007-02-24 19:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by Dwayne S 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I want a girlfriend. Never had one.
Better to have loved than never to have loved at all right?
ps: worst answer lol
2007-02-24 19:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by Le Parrain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋