ok so theres this girl i meet, shes was my friends gf, and we are now best friends, she talks to me about her problems and tells me that her bf was a liar and all this crap about him, on valentines day she asked me to see her, she wanted to see me and not him, she invites me to the mall,ice cream and all this cool places, do you guys think she likes me!? i pick her up at work too and we always have fun chattin for sure what do you people think!! i need serious answers.
2007-02-24 18:38:57 · 16 answers · asked by Eric M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She may either like you, or reboudning off her boyfriend. Since he doesn't treat her all too well, and you do, it's obvious who she is going to gravitate towards. Ask her what she thinks about your relationship, and let her answer first. If she says Best Friends, well, then you'll know, but if you answer first, and its not the same as hers, it might ruin what you do have now. Good luck :-)
2007-02-24 19:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by c3345 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if her boyfriend is treating her like crap, she's looking for someone who will give her the attention she needs. I've been there, done that. However, if you like her and want to get serious with her you have to ask her what is your status with her and where is this leading too? If she just wants company then just be her "best friend". She may just be using you until her man pays attention to her. Be very careful, make sure you know what her intentions are.
2007-02-25 02:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by Girlwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she must trust and feel comfortable telling you her issues about her bf. She seems to like you still but be careful there's nothing coming after that nice stuff. Make sure she isn't using you to make him jeolous and using you to make herself feel good for the moment. Sometimes girls have game. You should know her ways since you were with her before. Think of why you guys broke up. Has there been any positive things done or changed since then? You know your true feelings. Good Luck!
2007-02-25 02:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by ro2555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, but it may also be that she just appreciates having a close guy friend. The only way to know for sure is to have that conversation with her, but you need to be prepared for either answer. I'm guessing she thinks the two of you are just friends.
2007-02-25 02:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by jazzman6812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure if she likes you in that way... i have a boyfriend too but i also have a best guy friend that i talk to about everything, but i only like him as a friend. its possible she likes you as more than a friend but id find out for sure first before you go asking her out or anything
2007-02-25 02:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by megan_mcha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm im not sure man cos u culd be just a good close best guy friend to her or she could like u but either way just always be there for her and wait til the moment she says she likes u
2007-02-25 02:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a very thin line to walk but u would have to weigh in on the risk that u may end up lossing on both ends but looks good for u buddy give it a try
2007-02-25 02:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it deff. sounds like she may have something for you but you never know. she may just be doing friendly acts. but youll never really know if she does like you or not unless you hear it from her. if it really comes down to it and you wanna know then ask her yourself. and if she doesnt then its cool and if she does then great! but things dont always go the way we want them to in life. what happens happens because it was ment to. and what doesnt just doesnt because it wasnt supposed to for a reason wether we ever realize it or not. but good luck with it all! = ]
2007-02-25 02:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by pickelsnmustard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might take you as best friend only .... since she's hurt by her bf and she got no1 to trust with her secrets. So i think you should take it slow with her.... if she really likes you , then you'll found out soon.. but do take this question yourself 1st .... do you like her bf ? hehehe good luck bro ;)
2007-02-25 02:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Adrian T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I think you're just her security blanket. If she still talks about the other guy, chances are she's still into the other guy. Sorry to break the news to you, you're just her friend for now.
2007-02-25 02:44:49 · answer #10 · answered by punky0129 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋