Guy Advice? Urgent. Please Help?

Question

So. Whenever I like a guy I always have no chance with him...I basically keep falling for the wrong guy and whoever asks me out I don't like at all.
So there's this guy..he has curly hair..hes blonde. I wont say his name-I've known him for about two years
I just began noticing he's really cute....
but, he went out with one of my good friends for like 9 months
and they broke up about a month ago...
and I think..I like him
but I dont think i should
I dont think he likes me that way either...
hes really funny
and tickles me...and hes adorable...
but...
I really need help!

IMPORTANT
okay
the girl has another boyfriend now&&is happy
SO STOP W/THE BESTFRIEND RULE
shes not my bestfriend
a good friend...

To V, you said this:
"Get him drunk and screw his brains out you filthy whore"
I'd like some mature answers.
It pains me to think you may be years older than me
but have the brain of a ten year old.

Answer 1

asoefijeo['inein its the most frusterating thing in the world!!
same here. only the weird kids like me =p
you just have to push yourself out of your comfort zone
constant eye contact, keep him laughing just as much
if you do somethng stupid, dont get all pissed off, you have to be able to laugh at yourself. hell think its adorable [=
but most important, be yourself [hard part for me unfortunately]
and you have to drop more than hints for them to notice
boys arent all that sharp, so they dont pick up you like him that fast

im at the point where i know he doesnt like me, but he doesnt know i like him.
so im sortof stuck right now, and it may be too late
before you know for sure he doesnt like you,
you have to tell him before its to late and your just a friend
ask him out over the weekend with a group of friends
if that goes well, go just you two on a date and wellahhh<3

Answer 2

If you have a history of making bad dating choices, then its reasonable to think that you might be liable to make another. Your focus should not be about this guy, but rather the big picture. Spend some time really thinking about what attracts you. Look back at past dating experiences and remember what worked and what didn't. Example: Do you get along best with the strong silent type or the amiable talkative type?

Set up some standards to hold yourself to in your mind and approach these situations with confidence and pride. I know it can be tempting to fall for someone you barely know, and become emotionally invested in that person, but this usually leads to pain and is borne from insecurity.

In conclusion: Don't worry about this guy. If he likes you, he'll pursue you. If not, then you won't be wasting your time. Keep yourself focused on the big picture and don't sell yourself short.

Answer 3

People are together for less than 9 months before getting engaged to be married. How serious was your friends relationship with him? Put yourself in her shoes... would you like it? In some situations it can be fine, but if you get a bad feeling about it, it is usually not a good idea. You should value your friendship and respect her and yourself. A friend of mine slept with my ex once and that hurt. I don't think she did the right thing based on the situation, we are still friends but it's always in the back of my mind...

Answer 4

If you allow a guy to tickle you, you're telling him it's perfectly acceptable to touch you in sensitive places (and all the better if he KEEPS going for it). Just ask him out. He'll probably say yes.

Answer 5

I think that if you guys flirt there is a chance but one of your friends went out with him. If you talk to your friends about it they can see if he likes you or not. And you cant control your feelings you can like him if you want its not your fault.

Answer 6

Whatever happend to the bestfriend rule??? Your not surrpose to date someone who dated one of your closes friends. SORRY. Do you like sloppy seconds?? Do you mind being a rebound?? I think you should find your worth and think about about it. Good Luck!!

Answer 7

the first thing you need to do is ask your how she still feels about him and who she feel if you wanted to talk to him, and find out if he really likes you that way before you do anything.

Answer 8

im the eact opposite with chicks. i just gave up
and became sexless. now all i do all day is talk to people like you.

Answer 9

I had the same problem. I just have up. I am sexless

Answer 10

get him drunk and screw his brains out you filthy whore