it's annoying
2007-02-24 18:31:46 · 41 answers · asked by dawn. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my brother used to have this problem while living in his old apartment, he said they would be on the other side of the wall moaning like crazy so he'd moan back and make really odd noises, then they would go totally quiet lol! You could try that or maybe leave a note on her bed. That would drive me nuts too!
2007-02-24 18:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sorry you have to deal with that.
If I was a kid in the same situation, it would make me want to flee the house. But that's not good because you shouldn't be out late getting into trouble.
I don't know how you discuss such a thing with your own parent without major embarassment for both sides. Maybe you could get across to her that the walls are paper thin in some other context -- like mentioning that you heard her or the guy snoring last night and that the walls are so thin it was hard for you to sleep. Maybe you could ask if you can turn on the stereo in the lving room if that happens again. Then next time you hear the objectionable noise, go turn on that stereo as loud as you must. Maybe it will eventually dawn on them that they are disturbing you.
I honestly don't know if this will work. As a last resort, you're just going to have to play music in your room, with headphones, and wait out the next few years. Sorry for your situation. It's not your fault, and this too shall pass.
2007-02-24 18:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Investor 2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I was taking you seriously until you said you heard his balls on her thighs *throws up a bit in my mouth* well I think that it's wrong, sex is something that needs to be discussed at the right age, not giving your child a demonstration. You need to tell her your uncomfertable and if she doesn't stop I would think about moving in with a friend if that's not an option, I'd tell my guidance councelor. An embarrassing discussion with an educated adult may make your mom rethink how loud she screams "oh go oh god" I hope this helps
2016-03-16 00:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do like the idea of taping it. The behavior is rather disgusting though, so I understand why you find it annoying. I really don't like advertising what I'm doing. This could be considered lewd behavior in the presence of a minor and involve the police, you know. It might not hurt to remind them of that, if it applies to your situation. Wouldn't cost anything to ask the police about the various possibilities. Then again, if you merely find the noise alarming you don't even have to check in advance. Call the police and say you're afraid because of the noise coming from that bedroom and you're worried about your mother's safety. Be at the door to let them in, and tell them that you were afraid to check on them yourself. After all, if you can call in a loud drunken party---well, what's the difference?
2007-02-24 18:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How awkward! If you are under 18, it would be common courtesy for her to be quiet. I'd just ask her, and tell her that you are uncomfortable. And if it is at night, you can say that you are having difficulty sleeping.
Now, if you are over 18 and living at home as a favor, then well...I don't know if you can say much. However, if you are in school, you can say that you can't sleep or can't study. And if you are paying rent, then you can definitely say something!!
2007-02-24 18:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by Keep It Sane 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight up.
Or ask her what the loud noise was last night.
She will probably blush.
Say 'thats gross mom! stop doing that when i'm home'
She will probably stop.
But most likey, tell her straight up.
2007-02-24 18:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by Massie L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend to be clueless. "Man, there was a lot of racket last night! I was up looking all over the house to figure out what it could ahve been. I thought it was coming from your room but I couldn't be sure. Maybe next time when I hear it, I'll come in and wake you up so you can help me figure out where that sound is coming from!"
2007-02-24 18:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but your mother is not going to take this well. She is the adult in the house and won't like being what to do. A suggestion may help the situation like asking her to let you know when to leave the house during this ritual and how long do you need to be gone. Then let her decide on a solution to this problem.
2007-02-24 18:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "Mom, it's really embarrassing and annoying to hear you having sex with your boyfriend. And besides that, it's setting a really terrible example for me."
2007-02-24 18:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dawn,
Wait until they are both in the same room, where you could address them.
Tell them that it doesn't take much to hear them. Also tell them that "whatever you do is none of MY business...I want no part of it, and I shouldn't have to listen to it either."
Perhaps this will prompt them to have sex when you are away, or they will get a room.
Good Luck!
2007-02-24 18:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by Wolfsburgh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋