Hi, I'm 18. I'll be 19 in March. Let me start out by telling you my dads been fighting colone cancer for 5 years and it just hit me this year that he could die, i dunno what i would do without my dad and it would just be nice to come home to a ''lover'' that cares to hold me when i had a bad day or to make me smile. Theres this guy i was talking to for 8months and it was going well i would have sex with him but not kiss him. idunno if i was scared, depressed or what and i deffinitely know for a fact how much i care about him and like him. i want to love him & take care of him and i will kiss him now but like 3weeks ago he stopped talking to me cause he said i show no affection and i just hung out with him the other day and he said he just wanted to be friends and that exactly how he acted. he didnt try to touch me and u could tell his missed me a little by the way he was talking but i didnt feel the connection or the vibe this time. i want to know how i can make him realize i love him.
2007-02-24 18:00:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Too late now
2007-02-24 18:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by BED 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
watch some korean dramas and learn how to do romantic things, or be original and think of something romantic so that he knows you put the energy and thought into patching things up. Have you told him you like/love him, seriously this time? Maybe he just wants that trust from you and obtain that affection he was expecting the last time.
make sure you're not trying to get back together with him just because you're afraid to be lonely, because we women have to be strong and independent and men aren't always reliable. As you can see, as of now, you're just adding another issue in your life when you're already dealing with something like that with your father.
do you have a best friend? or family members you can go to? i'm sure your other family members are going through the same thing.
i wish your father luck.
2007-02-25 02:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by whispertotherain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A spark has to work both ways, regardless of how much spark you feel from him, if he is not feeling spark from you, then it is doomed.
You have a lot on your mind at the moment. It is understandable that you want comfort, but is he really the right person for the type of comfort you want?
There are numerous support groups for people whose family members and friends are suffering from life threatening illnesses. Maybe you should get involved in one of them to get the support you need.
2007-02-25 02:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
making him realize that you love him isnt prolly what you should be most worried about. you should worry about wether things could work out for future refrences or not and wether your going to be wasting your time. but do what you think is right and dont ever be afraid to tell him how you feel and ask him for an honest resonse. but if things dont work out then its cool like will go on and somone new will eventually come along i promise. if things were ment to work out then they will and if they dont then they werent ment to and they wont for a reason wether you see it or not. but do what you think is best . and good luck!
2007-02-25 02:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by pickelsnmustard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i feel bad for your dad, well and you. sad...
anyway the best thing to do in a situation like this is ignore the dude. not completely but it works sooo good. like if he calls to ask you to hang out with him say " i cant" and hang up. it will drive him insane. then he realizes he cant live with out you and he comes begging you to go out with hime
2007-02-25 02:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and try to explain to him your situation. i'm just hoping that he's not into another and still loves you. if he does i'm sure he will understand you and you can win him back.... and if you does please make the most out of it so you will not loose him again ok! goodluck!!
2007-02-25 02:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by honeyko_japan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋