Made a very big mistake though my girlfriend was cheating on me (wanted to spend more time with this other guy drinking) but I soon found out that it was the anniversary that her brother died (something I had no idea about) and that the other dude had experienced the same thing (so the meetings were for support. So everything is lost between me and her... I still love her, and know i made a big f***ing mistanke, but I really didnt know about her brother. Have any ideas how I can make it up to her?, I am already going to send her roses and write her a nice long letter, but does anyone got anyother ideas? Ideas that are out of the the blue that she wont expect...
2007-02-24 17:59:32 · 2 answers · asked by vincy015 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You didn't make the mistake, she did by closing you out, not being honest with you and choosing emotional intimacy with another guy over you.
The excuse she gave sounds just like that, an excuse. For goodness sakes, you guys only in high school and she is already make dates to go out drinking with another guy to kill her pain, she has some serious problems looming in her future, which could even include jail when she gets caught drinking underage.
If you really care about her as person, skip the rose and the romance and just send a card telling her that you care about her, are worried about her, but will be there as her friend if she ever wants to talk.
2007-02-28 02:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still think she is playing you. If you wanna play second fiddle to all her so called guy friends, be my guest. But I would be for dumping this one.
2007-02-25 08:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋