I am older and have never really been good with guys....not guys that I could REALLY like. I am great at flirting when I dont care, but
for some reason......when there is a chance that something could actually come of it.......I get really shy.......any advice??
I have the hots for a guy that I dont know, but I saw him in a local bar tonite and he is the sound guy for the regular Saturday night band.
2007-02-24 17:57:07 · 4 answers · asked by Trish 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just for the record.... I am a woman.
2007-02-24 18:13:49 · update #1
then flirt like you dont care. its in the mind. think that they're all the same until you get going. this will help alot.
2007-02-24 18:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a guy or girl, if guy watch the man to see how he acts to see if he is really gay, don't go asking him that, you might find yourself embarrassed. Then if you kind of think heck yes he's gay, then drop little hints, go see his band every night, look at him with an expression that doesn't come off too strong but strong enough to let him know your interested in what he's got. If you're a girl, go up to him and tell him how great the band is, actually that could work for both sexes, tell him it sounded great and that you loved it, don't come off to "I WANT YOU SO BAD" just enough to flirt, maybe invite him to have a drink with you or something. BUT DON'T COME OFF TO STRONG KEEP IT REAL AND DON'T BE SOMEONE YOUR NOT. GL
2007-02-24 18:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im only 16 so this may be sorta dumb eve though im known as the biggest flirt at school but yeah... u might wanna try going up to him and see whats going on in your life but always be smiling but if things seem to be going well try to buy him a drink if u can also dont take a girlfriend up with you cuz then their is a chance he could end up liking her. but i know its hard to talk to a guy u like but you just have to be daring...and hey if one goes down that leave 1billion more to find lol. hope you do great!!!@
2007-02-24 18:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by lisa t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a friend to write with make up, "F**K" on one eye lid and "ME" on the other so when you see a nice guy you can close your eyes and he will get the message that you want him.
Saves any corny one liners and gets straight to the point.
2007-02-26 03:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋