k i no i have asked this question alredy but im not getting the answers i want. i need pictures of a guy from 12-15 that is hot preferably not famous. i just need the links.
the answers i have gotten are just asking me if i am pretending to have a boyfriend, well thats not y, my friend has gone in to a depression since her boyfriend broke up with her he insulted her alot and now she thinks that no boy could possibly like her. so i said that i would hook her up with this guy but he ended up getting a girlfriend the day i told her this (different schools) and doesnt want to even think of cheating on her. now i just need a picture of a hot guy so that i could pretend to be a guy that thinks she is pretty to make her feel better, if u were in my position u wouldnt want ur bff moping around about some dumb guy, im just trying to make her feel better, plzzz help me!!!
2007-02-24 17:55:46 · 18 answers · asked by cndrll_1613 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have a guy friend that is willing to talk to her on msn but i need the picture because he is homeschooled and him mom really dont like him haveing pictures ofhimself on or anything and he not hot, but he really nice and sweet, plzz help!!!
2007-02-24 17:59:57 · update #1
Don't lie. That is not the way to make her feel better. Give her moral support, not fake hopes.
2007-02-24 18:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by E-Razz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can tell your heart is in the right place for wanting to help your friend. But fooling her with deception will only cause more pain if she ever were to find out. Your friendship could be at risk then. I know you wouldn't want that to happen. Instead why don't you try helping her get a make-over. Even if you are the one doing it for her. Do her nails, maybe add some streaks in her hair or different hair color, style her hair differently. Help her experiment with different make-up that will enhance her beauty. Then take photos of her. Making her feel special right now it what it is all about. Getting her mind off him and back on her. Then go somewhere, for a walk, or whatever. Point out the guys that are giving her the eye. If you are in a position that you can't just go out like that, then stay the night and help make her up before school (if you are still in school)..then once you are at school, point out the guys checking her out. This always helps. And at the very least it will be great bonding for you and your bff. It will also show her how much you care about her as a friend. Good luck.
2007-02-25 02:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you really need to do is go to yahoo images and type in male. You'll find lots to choose from. However your friend doesn't really need you to pretend to be a guy. There are too many things that can go wrong with pretending to be someone who likes her. What if she believes the person is real and wants to meet up or exchange other pictures. Your well intentions might cause her more pain.
Instead, take her to get pampered and treat herself to a wonderful day or weekend out. She needs a best friend who will tell her it's OK to cry and to feel sad, but to also be there to listen to her. Don't try to tell her that she'll get over it. She knows deep down that in time she will. But for now, she just needs someone to understand and be there for her.
The last thing she needs is to boyfriend hop. That doesn't do anyone any good. Especially if its a fake. She truly needs to learn that she is valued without a boyfriend. The guy should be added value but he should never be the only value or the thing that makes her feel valued. She needs to feel valued in her own right.
2007-02-25 02:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by T esira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart is in the right place, but what you are planning to do could backfire and make her feel worse. Trust me on this. If she's young, what's the big hurry to find a boyfriend? She has plenty of time and doesn't need you to make a pretend boyfriend that she could start to get feelings for and then find out he isn't even real. Once she finds out what you did, she will think even worse about herself. Thinking she is so ugly she can't even get a real boyfriend. How would that make you feel? Don't do it.
2007-02-25 02:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by ஐ♥Gin♥ஐ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lyin to your friend is not a good idea. Think about it. What if she wants more - a deep relationship with this " dream guy"? But "he" won't meet her. When does it stop? Believe me it will get very complicated and eventually cause more pain.
It is very sweet you wanna help your friend. But the important thing is for her to be ok even if she doesn't have a guy. Support her,but decieve her! Good luck!
2007-02-25 02:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by britlynn18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you want to make her feel better, but lying to her by pretending to be a guy that thinks she is pretty is not the way to do it. Sorry! Just tell her that you're here for her, and I bet she'd like it if you went over to her house with some ben and jerry's and just hung out.
2007-02-25 01:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by christina rose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a nice suggestion, and kind to want to help your friend out. but getting a picture of any guy for that reason is not going to help. what if she wants to meet him. what are you going to do then. If you really want to help her. be there for her, when she needs you. Sorry if this isn't the answer you want. but you will only add to the hurt. good luck.
2007-02-25 02:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should wait till shes at least 16 she got her whole life ahead of her to look forward to . Tell her I said theres a guy at ever bus stop if you miss one stop there will be one at the next stop. Tell her let the guy come to her and she will have another boyfriend. Most guys could careless about a girls past. Tell her to let it go lifes to short to let a boy ruin her life. Life goes on. At age sixteen there will be guys fighting over her. Hope this helpled alittle.
2007-02-25 02:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it doesn't matter.
its not your responcibility.
and if you pretend to be something fake
that would make your friend feel loved...
your a really bad friend.
2007-02-25 01:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by ocqueen92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and when she finds out her friend played her, she will be even more miserable. leave it alone and let her sulk a while, it will be good for her.
2007-02-25 02:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋