Help Is NEEDED!?

Question

Ok well, I really love this guy...with all my heart. He was my first love and I STILL cry over him, after a year. So I really think maybe giving this guy another try, will be good. They say "Let it go and If it comes back, thats how you know". Yes, he has done me wrong in the past and yes I did do few things. He has a girl now and bascially I KNOW he still cares about me. He said call him whever I feel like talking and ALL my friends told me "He gave you his number for a reason". I believe that and when I called him back one day..He told me how he misses when I call him and he started bringing up the past. His girlfriend though..(not to be cocky) but I look better then her and she has a BIG jealous side. She alwayz assumes me and him are gonna get back together. Even when we went to the movies..WITH HIS GIRL THERE..he was being flirty. My friend told me not to even pay him any attention and I shoud move on and find better things. My other friend...she said "He might be going out with this girl to have someone to claim and maybe he still does have feelings". Im in a situation where I am totally confused. Should I let him go or try and work things out. Oh and he gives out weird emotions..one minute..he loves me, then the next he claims to love his girl. Also, my friend told me one day he was even bout to DUMP his girl to get with me. I need help..what should I do?
Thanks

Answer 1

for right now, let it go. if things don't end up working out for him and this girl, then maybe start thinking about you and him. BUT cross that bridge when (or if) it should come to you. really though.....just move on.

Answer 2

Why would you want a guy who is OBVIOUSLY playing games with your heart?? MOVE ON!!! Your ex is trying to have his cake and eat it too. You deserve better than that. Trust me...
if he would leave her to get back with you......he would leave you to get back with her.
He is trying to be "THE MAN" and have two women. Learn a litle self respect and MOVE ON; otherwise, you will NEVER get over him. He will continue to break your heart as long as you let him.
I know its not what you want to hear, but its the truth.