I live with my parents in a 6 bedroom 3 bathroom home. I have a six year old little girl and go to school full time..I work and make about $1,000 a month.
I have two younger brothers who do drugs (they don't live there) but they come to my parents house and do crazy things.
yesterday my brother dented the entire side of my car by kicking it repeatedly.
I called the police because I was scared.
Now today my mother told me that my daughter and I have to move out.
I don't know what to do.
I don't want to quit school. And I don't make enough money for my daughter and I to live comfortably..at my current job.
I am a grown woman, but my parents told me as long as I was in school, that I could live there. Now they changed it around.
The damaged done to my car is well over $1,000.00..
I have to pay for it and move out.
Any advice.
I am very stressed out over this situation, as is my daughter.
2007-02-24 17:45:14 · 8 answers · asked by Bigmomma 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I wanted to but the car is in my mother's name.
2007-02-24 17:54:55 · update #1
I have to agree my family is sick.
I want to move out, for my daughter's sake.
I just don't know how I can do it along with going to school.
Does anyone know of a place that helps single moms?
2007-02-24 18:10:07 · update #2
Can you go on welfare if you get paid cash? I don't have any government assistance besides my financial aide. I live in san antonio.
2007-02-24 18:23:22 · update #3
Maybe she will calm down.
I have some choice words to say about your mother but children come into YA and I cant say them.
Im dumbfounded that she could be so cruel. She is also enabling your brother. What a sad sad situation. I hope you make sure your child is never exposed to your sick family.
2007-02-24 18:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong especially for your daughter. Put what you want out there. Anythings possible. Talk to your parents and try working things out with them. I give you a lot of credit. Being a full time Mom, student and work a job~Wow. Take care and good luck :)
2007-02-24 17:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mommyof2angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. I know of some places here in my town that specialize in helping out single mothers, but i don't know where you are. In any case, unless your car is absolutely messed up in a way that you cannot drive it until fixed, i wouldn't suggest that that be top on your list of priorities. You can get enough cash to get an apartment if you've been saving up, for the most part, your cash. if you attend church, then you could probably ask your pastor and church family for a little assistance. I don't know much more, unless you like go on welfare or something, that way, i know they'd get you a house of your own. Well, God Bless, and i'll keep you in my prayers.
2007-02-24 18:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents if its okay to stay until you find appropriate roof for you and your daughter. Dont think about the why's at the moment...parents are usually harder on the kids that are less in need mentally, spiritually, youre a stronger person...they know you can take care of yourself...they are weak and...your brothers are flakes. lots of weak parents will enable the weak children.
Try to find a college gal that will rent an apartment with you and split the costs. Be the adult you seem to be and also make a stand on the time your parents spend with your daughter. let them come visit. dont take her there...they will only cause you more grief. it seems you need to part ways with your family, unfortunately, until a time when your parents realize the one good relationship/child they may have left. theyll come around. maybe years later...but you will find peace of mind and a better situation for your daughter. good luck. keep ur head up and be strong for your daughter. good luck and god's blessings on you. peace
2007-02-24 18:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man... sounds rough. Make sure that your mom kicking you out wasn't a kneejerk reaction to something. If it was not and you really have to leave, then move in with a friend. If you don't have friends or family, then look on craigslist for shared rooms.
Good luck
2007-02-24 18:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to them and ask them why they changed their minds. and also tell them how you feel. Maybe if you have a friend that would want to move into an apartment with you , that might work. or try for public aide or some kind of help out there. good luck. and best wishes for you and your daughter. and as for your car, press charges agaisnt him.
2007-02-24 17:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats life
2007-02-24 17:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2007-02-27 04:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Vidor Rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋