a guy im seeing knows i dont see anyone else and appreciates that but when i said to him i dont think i trust you....he didnt say anything. when i confronted him he said "what do you want me to say? that im cut you dont trust me and that you shoud?"
i got so angry i didnt talk to him and went straight home and havent spoken to him since yesterday.
what do you think is going on?
2007-02-24 17:41:21 · 6 answers · asked by itshellhot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't sound like this relationship is going very well. Why did you get angry after as much as accusing him of cheating? And the term "confronted him" pretty much sums this up. Why "confront" him? I mean I can understand why that would hurt him if he truly cares for you and has been faithful. But I don't know why you would get angry at his reaction. You started the "confrontation" after all.
It just doesn't seem like you guys blend very well.
You could call him and set a time to meet and just talk it out. If there is hope to salvage this that may be the only way. If you don't talk through this it is pretty much over though I think.
He's not cheating. Why are you feeling insecure?
2007-02-24 17:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That phrase is really harsh. [sorry to be so blunt.] but i have done the same thing, so i was in the same boat.
Well, first of all, if you're posting this i'm guessing that you really like him and want to keep seeing him right? Alrighty then, read on.
You saying you don't trust him probably hurt him greatly because, he was trusting you and also trusting you to trust him because that's what a relationship is built on, mostly. Do you get where i'm getting at? You kind of broke his trust and faith in you to trust him. if you want to fix it i would have you ask yourself why you don't trust him [ if you don't already know] and tell him that reason, because he doesn't understand why you don't trust him. He wants you to trust him, so trust him! or at least tell him the reason and hopefully by then, you already trust him.
2007-02-25 01:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by whispertotherain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u shouldnt blame him i mean seriously what is he supposed to say put urself in his shoes, i thinnk u should realize that he prolly cares about u and it hurt him that u said u dont trust him u should have said it as a joke and he would have been like whyy and u couldve just said it...i think hes just waiting for u to call because ur the one who walked away and got mad hes just letting u have some time to cool off
2007-02-25 01:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by lucie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he really does not know what to say. i had a dude friend like that and half the time i couldn't trust him, and if i asked him something he really didn't have an answer
2007-02-25 01:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you trust him? Even if he is faithful, there's no way he can convince you of that. (since you have made up your mind to not trust him)
But since you don't seem to have a reason to doubt him, I'd say you have no reason to not trust him.
I doubt he is cheating.
2007-02-25 01:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Nameless 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait more time, if he calls back, give him a chance, , if not forget him, not worth a moment of thinking
2007-02-25 01:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋