how? do i play games? make him jealous? how do i play hard to get? help me?!?!?!?!
2007-02-24 17:39:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try being yourself around this guy
if he likes you 2 just ask him out
guys r scared of being rejected same as you ladys
why possible hurt his feeling if you really like him
2007-02-24 19:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by md m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ignore everyone saying 'ignore him...then be nice... then ignore him' blah blah blah. all guys are different. some will respond well to ignoring and it will make them keener. but most will give up. you cant win in all honesty.
the best way is to be subtle. its all in the eyes. the little looks that keep him wondering if there is something there or if it was just another look.
dont flirt with other guys to make him jealous!!! a few guys might like it. but most will just think. 'shes a bit of a tease and i wont go there'. plus it will demean the flirting your doing with him. he'll think 'if shes doing it with other guys shes probably just taunting me. i wont bother'. however its nice to be seen talking to male friends.
smile!!
good luck
2007-02-25 04:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by maraesa1000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ignore him, but if for some reason you have your heart set on being chased then figure out what that particular guy wants. Every guy is different. I prefer down to earth gals who like to watch the same sports I do. So if you wanted me to chase you, you would talk football to me ect.....
But like I said every guy is different. You want to be chased....and hes not chasing you. If its that important to you to be chased by him then try to figure out who he's liked/dated in the past and try to figure out what attributes she had that made her appealing to him. I'm not saying you should change who you are, but taking up a new interest might not hurt if its something hes into.
2007-02-25 01:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by chicago.ford 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be proper nice to him somtimes & do somthin thoughtful & get his attention. then wait for him to do the chasing. say if you ring him constantly one day cuz you're bored or down, dont contact him the next few days as he should be doing that if he cares. it really works its like you've gotta give him a taste of what he can have then take it away & make him work to get it
2007-02-25 02:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by tupac4evaa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be really friendly to him every second time you see him, the completely ignore him every other time. It's really mean but it will make him go crazy over you.
2007-02-25 01:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Max Havelaar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the point, you are making these things happen, they are only happening because of you.Are you so spoilt that you must have something at any cost.Walk away and find something better.
2007-02-25 03:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cast a spell on him or get some Come to me lover! oil that works a treat
2007-02-25 10:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by shellnkids07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE HIM... yes you heard me right. ignore him. he becomes parinoid and goes gaga over you. its funny to watch and if you do it right it can get him to like you. it works every time
2007-02-25 01:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by alien 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's gonna sound stupid, but - how about being yourself? if he doesn't go crazy for you as 'you', then why bother?
2007-02-25 03:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
one what is your age and his!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Never ask questions like this of you get answers that are not suitable for you...
Ie wait in his bed room naked with £300 of sex toys and a mate handcuffed to the bed
(no not suggesting you do that... you would prob scare him)
LOOK NEVER
PLAY GAMES
MAKE HIM JEALOUS
PLAY HARD TO GET
Seriously as this is how guys think.
LITTERALLY. if you like somone else you will never like him
if you play hard to get you hate him and if he tried you would have him expelled, sacked, arresed to perverted stalking diviency or something
You will see he looses all his friends, get him places on a sex offenders register etc etc
Or not quiet that bad but all these girls go on about sexaul harrasment simply as a guy asks them out, or that guys see them as pieces of meat or sex objects etc and only being friendly to grope them.
Or that you would just laugh in his face and tell everyone that aloser like him actually thought he had a chance with you as if.
or that you are not into him but into others so dont bother.
Also guys dont get or like games they dont communicate in signs, hints, messages and meaning one thing and saying another.
guys dont do that
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Translation
If you want a guy to like you...
Make yourself available and appraochable.
Let him know you like him
Point out you are a girl, have girlie features, that are not fully covered up so more of a chance of him seeing them or touching them.
Being touchy feely
Being fun and playful
Being forward.
Thats why guys like short skirts or tight tops.
Its like waving a doggy treat infront of a dog. Now if far away out of reach dog aint interested, if placed in mouth not interest
But if in sniff distance just out of reach then doggie gets excited
and trys to get it as its possible to get a doggie treat and maybe do tricks to try and get the treat...
ie cop a feel.
Guys are into boobs... Tight tops, low cut tops, ones where they can almost see your doggie treats.
Likewise short skirts were can almost see your panties all the way up, but not quite.
Likewise guys want to be with someone who is fun to be with when not making out...hence going for surf chicks, biker babes, skater girls, dancers etc
They like girls who are passionate who will be exciting and hot kissers and exciting and want them.
Not be doing their duty like its doing the dishes
and part of that is how you express yourself.
And they want girls who like them who wont stop being their friends if they ask them out, who like them.
They like girls who are touchy with them, therefore its ok to touch them back and kiss them.
And they like touching girls be it kissing and hugging and cuddling and when older more sex stuff.
Thats how it really works.
The only hard to get games which are fun are when you are both dating and both know its cool. To play chase games ie snog chase, or hide and seek, or strip poker. Or setting him challenges (if safe) that if he completes the challenge. Ie bravely skydive and he gets your bra. or wins a race
2007-02-25 06:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋