what does it mean when somedays my gf wont say "i love you" back to me when i say it to her, but everything in our relationship is fine and the next day when i say it she says it back. should i worry?
2007-02-24 17:37:39 · 17 answers · asked by Mushroomhead Fan 24 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she is stressed over somthing else u wouldnt worry about it as long as she says it at least every other day she probly still feels special when u say it
2007-02-24 17:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by puppy dog 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't worry, actually, you shouldn't say it expecting her to reply the same thing, that feels more like you want assurance more than you expressing your self. The ones that really count are the ones that come from her spontaneously, but maybe she's not in the mood to say it and you are forcing it. Or you say it when you made her mad and she doesn't feel like saying it. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you. But when you say it say it as giving her a flower, not expecting an "I love you too" back.
2007-02-24 17:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by maccaroni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry. she just wants to be sure its 100% true when she says it. it is something special to say that so let her know you love her in what you do and say it less often until she feels like she can say it freely and meaningfully. dont make her feel out of place. girls love to be lavished so why not give her a red rose? or 10? write her a poem, sweep her off her feet or call her every night. its what you do that defines you
2007-02-24 17:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry about it, people say it at different times..
Talk to her about it and tell her that you wonder why she does it, that you feel better when she says it back to you,
one think dont attack her about it
Something like, you know how i say i love you, i feel strange when you dont say it back to me all the time
2007-02-24 17:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by mary L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should worry because at least she is saying " I love you". Sometimes we girls just like to hear you say it. And remember actions speak louder than words.
2007-02-25 06:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by Gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont worry. my girlfriend does it too. sometimes they're just stressed out and cant think. but most of the time they want it to be a special phrase and not wear it out, so they try not to say it too much.
2007-02-24 17:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry. Don't rush, just go along with it. Have u been together long? Just cos she says she doesnt love u doesnt meant she doesnt. if that made any sense. just let her have space and keep it cool as if nothing happened. k? Good luck!!
2007-02-24 17:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by Abz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmm I don't know ,maybe you catch her in a bad mood or maybe she feels that your pushing the issue in making her say it back, It doesn't sound like it's something to worry about but just ask her, talk about it, I don't think it all that bad.
2007-02-24 17:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be that she doesn't want to say it so much that it gets to the point that they're just words and she doesn't mean it as much anymore
2007-02-24 17:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a way to be, means she loves you, but wont say it first. feels no need to
2007-02-24 17:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋