i want to and i think he does too.. what do you think i should do?
2007-02-24 17:34:23 · 33 answers · asked by courtney loves tyler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait until you are older and married.
2007-02-24 17:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
DON'T DO IT!!!
You will regret doing it for the rest of your life. I am 13 as well and I am waiting until marriage, but even if I wasn't, I would NEVER think of doing it at our age. I am not saying don't do it for no reason. You can get an STD, you most likely won't be with this guy for very much longer, and did you know that once a guy gets what he wants(sex) from a girl, it's more likely that he'll move on to the next? I know people who have had sex early on in life and still regret it today, and they are married now and stuff (not to the guy that they had sex with, proving my point that you 2 won't be together). Just think about it, and if you aren't going to listen to most the people on here and don't do it, at least be sure you BOTH are using protection.
2007-02-24 17:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by em<3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should wait. You are much too young to be having sex at 13. Your first encounter with sex should be something special, not just thrown away. I'm not saying to wait until marriage, but at least wait until your 18. Then you can make the decision on your own and you'll be legal to do it. It doesnt matter how he feels, it matters how you feel. Also, think of all the possible consequences that come with having sex. Pregnancy, there's a whole slew of STD's out there, I can guarantee none of them are fun. AIDS- it can kill you. Is sex so important that you would risk any one of these things? Think about it before you do anything.
2007-02-24 17:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he really loves you, he will wait and get to know you as a person. He will want what is best for you, which is to wait until you are married. He will keep both of you out of situations where sex is even possible. Your body and more importantly your heart is not ready for this. Do you not know that when a man and woman have sexual intercourse, they become ONE. If things don't work out with you and this boy, which is highly likely given your age, a part of you is stolen from you that you can never get back. You are precious! Leave your clothes on and treat your body and his with the respect you deserve.
2007-02-24 17:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by pbcccm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Few girls actually enjoy the sex they have in high school or as freshmen in college, let alone in junior high school.
If every woman I've ever known in my 47 years of life had to go back and undo all their sexual intercourse before the age of 16, I can't think of one who'd have serious regrets. And if I raise the age to 19, there would be almost none who'd have regrets.
On the other hand, MANY women have horrific regrets about teenage sex.
In my option, the risk/reward ratio says NO WAY.
And I, on the whole, am actually very liberal sexually ...
2007-02-24 22:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about all the consequences. Pregnancy is always a possibility. Are you ready to be parents? Are you ready to be responsible for a human life? You can't drive. You can't get a good job ( by good a mean full time).
Second thirteen is young. Sex is a big decision- there is alot of meaning in that three letter word.
So wait! Be a kid! Don't create them!
Good luck!
2007-02-24 17:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by britlynn18 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your too young sweety,Wait until your at least 18 and do the right thing.At the same time Star is still a virgin at 27,I don't know what her story is,But everyone has their own reason for doing and not doing whatever.You will make the right decision when it comes to it,Just don't feel pressured to do anything you do not want to do.
2007-02-24 17:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by Eat My Shorts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you love this guy but let me tell you, there are many people who think they love somebody even when they're 20 and after the relationship ends they wonder why they wasted their time with him.
Virginity is a special thing, dont' give it away to just anybody, especially if you're 13.
Kids today are in such a rush to grow up and forget about being a child. I'm 27, I can tell you I never had sex for the first time until I was 22 and in all honesty, afterwards, after the relationship ended, I wish I had waited until I met my (now) husband. He was 24 before he had sex the first time and he's happy he waited that long.
Think about this: Lets say you have sex with your boyfriend.
A) your parents find out, you both get into trouble and are not allowed to see one another again
B) you get pregnant because how's it going to sound ... one of you says to your parents "can you buy me and ___ condoms cause we'd like to have sex but we don't want me to get pregnant"... they're going to kill you! and now how are you going to support that baby...neither of you can legally work at 13/14 years of age.
C) your relationship ends, he moves on and now everybody at your school knows you "put out" and are now being labeled a s-l-u-t/s-k-a-n-k/easy, which now is a reason for you to be teased/put down
and D) you go into high school, this label follows you and you have lots of guys wanting to date you but not because of who you are, but because they figure you'll give them sex and then they'll move on and you'll be left wondering what happened, why guys only want you for sex....
Do yourself a favor and think about that before you think about having sex and also ask yourself if at 14 years old you're ready for your body to be morphed so dramatically and that you'll be a mother and taking care of a baby (cause you had best believe that it'd be YOUR responsibility and not your parents...they raised a child already and they don't need to raise their grandkid), having little to no life the rest of your school days, and quite possibly having to drop out of school. Now if you have to drop out at such an early age, what kind of job do you think you'll be able to get when you're 16 or older....? Remember, a baby is expensive... you're working a minimum wage, dead end job and you have to afford like $200 on diapers each month, not to mention formula/food, bath stuff, clothes, etc....
Are you ready for that??? because you had better look at all the things that could happen if you have sex with this boy at this age instead of enjoying your childhood like you should be.
Think about it very very very carefully young lady... wait until you're old enough to do things for yourself; until you can drive, pay for your own clothes as well as your potential childs, etc.
2007-02-24 17:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think very hard with your brain, not your genitals! There can only be 1 'First time'. It should be very special. Before you make any decision, find out about
1. all of the diseases that can be transmitted through sex (http://www.cdc.gov/nchstp/dstd/disease_info.htm)
2. Pregnancy (http://www.teenbreaks.com/pregnancy/pregnancyhome.cfm)
3. How much it costs to take care of a baby.
My suggestion? Don't have sex. Masturbation is OK.
2007-02-24 17:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by GalfromCal_NM_TX 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go back to school and stop watch tv youre too young for sex sex sex is a lot like a puppy cute at first but after there is a big mess and noone want to clean up what happen it you were to have a baby then what think before you act you cant work and he take off and leave you its a dump ideal stay in school
2007-02-24 17:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Waite till your 18
2007-02-24 17:37:35 · answer #11 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋