I have a wonderful boyfriend who I've been with for 4 years. I am going to be in Sydney for couple years working through my company.
I met an Australian from Gold Coast last year and I email him every once in a while. It has been months and I cannot get this Aussie out of my head.
I fear what's going to happen. I have not told my Aussie friend that I like him and I don't know what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for years and this is a crazy situation. What would you do? Is it worth it to end a long term relationship over someone who you don't know what would happen or where its going to go? Do you get second thoughts about your relationship?
2007-02-24 17:30:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I'm perfectly happy with my husband of 13 years. n
2007-02-24 17:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are getting second thoughts about your boyfriend then maybe he isn't the one you are supposed to be with. Do you want to marry your boyfriend. This aussie might just be a fling and you would mess up what you have with you boyfriend, can he move to Australia with you and have you brought up? I have been with my significant other for 1 year and I have NEVER has second thoughts and he is serving in the military 13 times zones away. It is not worth in my opinion to end something that is good and you want to continue for something that might not ever be.
2007-02-24 17:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer if it is worth ending your relationship for this other person. Do others have second thoughts about thier relationship? Of course. But this is very normal and should be expected. Everyone should stop and re-evaluate thier lives from time to time.
2007-02-24 17:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
appears like you kinda remorseful about transferring right into a relationship with him if you're saying you nevertheless opt for your freedom to do issues with out being in a dedicated relationship. how are you going to say you fairly like him and decide to stay with him..yet having stated that you do not?! makes no sense. that is both you do, or you do not. i imagine you're merely at a loss for words by the actual shown actuality that you opt for him to be on your existence, as a pal who you could talk with, yet nevertheless have your freedom to do inspite of you opt for. if so, you at the on the spot are not waiting for a dedicated relationship with him or everybody else. you would possibly want to allow him know now than later. he will be extra devastated later understanding that you led him in this lengthy.
2016-10-17 08:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question would be: do you know if the aussie is interested in you? and even if he is, is it worth leaving this other guy for him?
Youll have to answer that for yourself. If you dont really love your boyfriend I dont see why youre staying with him
2007-02-24 17:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre obviously not completely head over heels over ur bf so yea its worth ending it for some random guy cuz u dont wanna live ur never knowing what could have happened so if u like this aussie guy then go for it cuz ur not in love with ur bf if ur intrested in some other guy
2007-02-24 17:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by lucie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is worth it if you both don't plan to get married someday soon. Yes I think we all get second thoughts at one time or another. Just go with your heart and if something is ment to be it will. Good Luck.
2007-02-24 17:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can happen and it is frightening and the reason it scares me quiet a lot.
2007-02-24 17:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋