my ex- boyfriend and i reunited after a 3 month break up. weve established that it isnt going to work and i want to move on but its hard, for the both of us. He has major issues far beyond our relationship. How do you convince yourself after giving everything youve got, that its not you its the other person and be able to move on. a peice of me wants to help him get to the root of the problem but hes so stubborn, no one can help him. I also have periods when i want to blame myself for us not working out until i look at the bigger picture. How do i deal with this?
2007-02-24 17:20:47 · 3 answers · asked by sTreSSLEss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just think to yourself that things for him will brighten up, if stuff didnt work out with you and him, then he will find someone else, sooner or later he will, you need to calm yourself, its not you, just lay down drink some hot green tea, everything is going to alright, it might take time, but everything will be alright.
2007-02-24 17:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by mtlmstbhevy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The quick answer is to go into therapy, seek counseling. Here's some basic info. First, you are responsible for you, not for him. You can't make somebody else do anything they don't want to do. So anything he did he chose to do. You are responsible ONLY for your own actions, not for the conduct of another. So, learn to love, honor and respect yourself and let others worry about how they decide to live. Honor yourself and you will make wise choices that will honor you. If you find yourself in a relationship that isn't working, it really doesn't matter whose fault it is, it just isn't working. So end the relationship. But always be honest with yourself.
2007-02-24 17:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if-u-have-someone-already-waiting-then-its-u-that-has-issues-not-him-and-how-long-have-u-had-him-
2007-02-24 19:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by bigcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋