Black women, what would make white men more attractive to you?

Question

I see alot of white guys trying to act hip-hop savvy just to be around the scene and meet black women.

I say be yourself....

Answer 1

Stop acting like black men. You want to be more attractive ? Show some honesty. Be truthful and loving. Don't be a phoney. Put her first before yourself.

Answer 2

You dont have to be hip hop savvy to meet or connect with black women. Thats is such a cliche. but what i find to be more true than not is most respectable black women are attracted to confidence. Although there are white men who have that, they seem to lose it when they are around black women. either that or they have too much and they are just "cocky" which is an all around turn off. I say be yourself also. And be confident and be as sure of who youre pursuing as possible.

Answer 3

I agree with you that you should always be yourself, but at the same time I think that some white guys are meant to be black and the show it by the way they act and dress. I think it also has to do with how you were raised and where you grow up. I was born in MO, but my dad is in the military and we are now stationed in a "ghetto" place. I have noticed myself listening to rap/hiphop/r&b/soul music. I dont listen to it because everyone else does, i have just realized that i like it. I have also been more attracted to blakc men as well. But until a few years ago i had never been exposed to any black influence. Its just your location on how you act. They may be themselves. I am still myself. By the way...I am a white female...15

Ambi

Answer 4

I am a white person that lives in a black neighborhood. Black women are more sociable if you ask me. They are more family-oriented. They are more likely to take you home for the night. They will want to keep you rather than throw you away. They will talk and talk and talk about nothing at all, and you better listen or they'll talk about you. I love 'em!

I think what makes white men more attractive to black women is simple social skills. If a guy can't even utter a word without swallowing his tongue he needs to get out more and learn to live it up. Living it up is what all girls want!

Answer 5

I say you are trying to bait someone. black men don't even want black women, I don't think it's right but the numbers tell the story, 71% of black children growing up without fathers present in the home, black men will choose an obese white woman over a trim black woman. what drives these men from their women, it isn't that white women pull them up, it has the opposite affect. it leaves the white men wandering what is so wrong with these women. even successful black men abandon their black wife for a white woman. who can figure that one out?

Answer 6

Definitely be yourself. Don't give into the pressures put on you by society and your family, love the person that you want to love. Don't try to speak Black English Vernacular because you think that's how I speak.

Answer 7

I agree, its a huge turn off when white men try to act shall i say..."ghetto"

White guys here act like they are ghetto, and we live in the whitest town ever, its funny.

Answer 8

hmm.....i usually see black men with white women and i think its a problem b/c they're taking all of our black men but thts besides the point and i really do hate seeing a white guy TRYING to act black,its really stupid and not attractive at all,i mean i want to marry a black guy but i wouldnt mind going out with a white guy as long as hes a really good gentleman and doens t just want me b/c of my body cuz most white guys want a ghetto booty and big T's but u know its hard to find a decent guy white or black

Answer 9

That's interesting. All the white men I know love white women-especially blinde hair/blue eyed ones. Some of my white friends date black men. What IS your question?

Answer 10

I agree with you. I am attracted to the individual not an image.