i am a good looking sensible asian guy....very nice at heart and i woudnt hurt anyone ever........my friends respect me and love me to death.....everything is fine except my dating life.....i dont go to many frat parties as i work on friday nites.......i was looking to ask some girl out ....and i started chatting with her on aim.......it was all going fine unless she asks me my last name.....then she searches for me on facebook, realises that im asian and blocks me on the messenger.........why are all white girls like that.....
2007-02-24 17:14:17 · 44 answers · asked by J D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We ALL are? That's news to me. Good thing you're above blind prejudice yourself.
2007-02-24 17:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Phartzalot 6 · 7⤊ 3⤋
She made the right decision to block you. I don't know whether it was for the right reason.
Are you a troll? Look at what you write:
"i am a good looking sensible asian guy" -- it is up to the girl to decide whether you are good-looking or not.
"very nice at heart and i woudnt hurt anyone ever" -- whether people are hurt is not up to you. Maybe you hurt some by being racist and calling all white girls racist.
"everything is fine except my dating life" -- then maybe she blocked you for the same reason others do.
"then she searches for me on facebook, realises that im asian and blocks me on the messenger" -- how do you know that this is what she did? and if she did, maybe she thinks Asians are a poor choice based on personal experience or something unrelated to racism. Myself I like the girls except that they are short. Maybe she wanted someone taller.
"why are all white girls like that" -- are you a racist troll?
Even if your story is true, we have only heard one side and you might have left something out. Respect her right to block if she doesn't want communication from you. That's what the block option is there for.
2007-02-28 07:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To prove this fallacy all I need to do is find one white girl who is not a racist.
But seriously, there are a lot of guys striking out who cannot use this excuse. I have an Asian coworker who is also looking for white girls. I was with him in a store getting a cell phone and he hit on the girl. She told him she was just 18 and he is 36.
Striking out on-line is nothing, what are you expecting? Take a probability course and a critical thinking class and you will be fine.
2007-02-24 17:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ron H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not put an entire segment of the world's population
in a tiny box labeled racist any more than you could say all Asians love rice and martial arts. Silly isn't it and rather foolish
to leave out "white girls from the dating pool because of what you
might think of this particular person, and for all you know, that might not be the case at all.
Maybe she just didn't enjoy YOUR conversation and it had nothing to do with RACE!!
2007-02-24 17:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by peachiepie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all white girls are racist. I'm a white girl, and I'm far from racist! My brother married a Chinese-American, and she's one of the greatest, nicest people I know. My parents had two foster children for nine months who were biracial, and in that time they became like my little brother and sister (unfortunately things didn't work out and they went to another foster home last week, but I'll always love them and miss them). Please, don't let bad experiences make you assume all white girls are racist, because we're not.
2007-02-25 07:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by zzilly14 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all your grouping a whole entire race into one horrid cat. because of one girl??? You need to jump onto my-space and look at the groups that are only for white girls attracted to asians..For girls like myself..I've always preferred to date asian guys, white guys just aren't my thing..Believe me I've been called a hater of my own race. And it's not true..I have two half asian children who are absolutely beautiful...I used to be a moderator of a group on yahoo specifically for white girls who love asian guys..We are not racist sweetie just hard to find...Get off face book, go to my-space and look up asian and white groups..You'll be surprised! If your as sensible as you say you are you'll realise that looping us all into one group isn't being fair....I hope you see my point and really check into things.. What really sucks is being in iowa and having a preference like mine..There just aren't many asian guys here :( If you need links and stuff just drop me a line..
2007-02-27 04:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by greeneyedgirl_ia 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not all white girls are like that I'm white
and guess what I think asian guys are hot so dont worry about her
she is a jerk
and now i hate her cause she is giving the rest of us a bad name!
Screw her she just missed out on a great guy!
2007-02-24 17:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by Aly Girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off not all white girls are like that you said that all white girls are racist which is a sterotypical respawnce and second thing least you get that far with white girls every asian girl I encountered either to shy or just blow me off
2007-02-24 17:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they're jealous of all other races of women who look better than they're ugly asses AND IF A WHITE GIRL SAYS SOMETHING RACIST TO U U TELL HER TO SHUT HER WHITE *** MOUTH AND IF SHE CALLS U RACIST OH WELL SHE SHOULDN'T BEEN RUNNING HER TRASHY WHITE *** MOUTH IN THE FIRST PLACE
2016-08-02 21:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, ALL white girls? Maybe this ONE was a racist, or may she's just not attracted to Asian guys. (I'm not, even though I have no quarrel with the race. I'm just into white guys exclusively.) To say that ALL white girls act like this makes you more of a racist than she was.
2007-02-25 03:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm pretty sure I'm white and I'm also pretty sure I'm not racist. I date any guy, regardless of race. I don't judge a future boyfriend or even date by his skin tone.
If these are the types of girls you are meeting, you need to find new ones. And you say they're in college? Man, they sure don't sound educated. You need to find girls somewhere else, because you're not finding the worthy ones.
2007-02-24 17:20:58 · answer #11 · answered by Awesome Alisa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋